Hi Jan66
I too belong to a local myeloma support group where we have members who have not responded for long to first (& in one case) second line treatments, but have gone on to have stable, low levels of myeloma so far for several years.
There are known to be 63 driver genes potentially allowing our myelomas to proliferate, usually in combination of at least 5 at diagnosis, which is why the course of myeloma seems such an individual thing.
However that can mean that we respond better to certain drugs than our doctors anticipate, certainly this has happened to one of my good friends, and I hope it is true for you too.
There are treatments like bispecific antibodies that are likely to be approved this year, and trials into Tri specifics. These work in different ways to other current drugs so might well work for you, and are “off the shelf” so don’t involve having to wait between lines of therapy (unlike say CAR-T cell therapy).
As your myeloma is more complicated than many, you might benefit from getting a second opinion from a major regional hospital,for another one if you are already being treated at one. Another option is asking for more detailed testing to look beyond the normal FISH testing that you probably had at diagnosis. You may need to push hard for this as it is not done routinely, but there are advantages to knowing what mutations you carry. For example there is currently a UK myeloma trial in 9 locations (Determine trial) of drugs that are known to work against BRAF V600 mutations, but none of us are routinely tested to see if we have this mutation. (It’s thought 5-7% of myeloma patients do have this mutation, and it does cause response times to be short).
Try not to despair. You are still here, and it sounds like your current quality of life is ok. Myeloma is generally like a steeplechase, most of us have occasional challenges, sometimes life threatening, but then we can be stable for many months or even many years. In the meantime myeloma research is progressing fast, and new, more effective treatments are being approved each year.