Hi Vanessa.
Well it has all been said and some above 😀
But my story (cut short cos am drug free at the moment)
I am the MM person 🙁 and doing darned great 😎 my young bride (Elaine) looks after my bits that I used to do but cant, and being the Carer was a role reversal as I was Elaine's Carer in 2008 when she had breast cancer and that for me was awful I prefer to be the MM person as I have better control over it and feel for my young bride as the Watcher I never liked it but it had to be done.
Many Thanks to all you Carers/watchers for doing a great But difficult Job.
Love Tom Onwards and upwards xxx