Hi Alex
Sorry to hear about your dad and the possible outcome that it may be Myeloma.
I was 67 and had been sent to orthopaedic for a “pain” in the hip last year. Based on his knowledge and CT scan I was sent to Haemotology for further tests and Multiple Myeloma was diagnosed. I too have lesions and tiny holes all over but touch wood none causing a problem yet.
What I am trying to say that this disease is normally discovered after other problems (in your dads case a Stroke). Others can be kidney problems, back, shoulder and so on before a final prognosis is given.
Your Consultant will do various blood test, possibly a PECTScan and then let you know of any treatment.
Depending on levels they may give a mild form of chemo or depending on the relevant information may just wait and monitor.
Others on this forum can talk to you about the “findings” where as I ask my consultant how are we doing and just need “its going in the right direction”.
The one thing I will say tell your dad to listen to his body. Tiredness is a big thing. If he needs it have a lie down and just rest, believe me it works and also drink plenty of water as this helps the kidneys and very important (2 – 3 litres per day is recommended).
Hope this initial contact helps and believe me there is plenty of information on this forum.
Regards
Graeme