Hi Teresa
Yes Slim goes 23 of this month,after a year on treatment,and septic pneumonia in the middle,been a hard slog to get here.|They say he is fit enough,and he can not be any worst than when he was in ITU for 9 Days and 11 days in general ward,with months after recovering while on treatment.

They will keep him in for at least4 weeks,and…[Read more]

Hi Helen
🙁 I do envy you I know its wrong but it will be at least 7 months from now before we can go out,to the land of the long white cloud,It will be 3 years I have not seen 2 of my grandchildren and when there young they grow up so fast
We talk on Skype,and have kisses and hugs,my computer has never had such affection before.:-)

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Hi Ted
How are you doing its a long time since I have seen post from you,one minute you are going on holiday,then no Ted about.:-)

I hope you remain in smouldering for many years,Love Eve

Hi Helen

My mind is just trying to get round the fact that your Dad must have been a older Dad with a young heart,if your the eldest 🙂

I can see were you are coming from ,specially when you finish chemo and you do not have to go to the hospital as much,you become normal and no one wishes to go backward,but if you were the carer!!!.
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Thanks Jet
have been reading up on this for a few weeks sounds very promising,talking about world trials.

Slims managed to get to SCT stage after CTD then Velcade so fingers crossed.
Going to Kings 23 April told 4 to 6 weeks in hospital.

Good luck for the future with your Allo SCT.Eve

Hi Jet
Sorry cannot get the link,are you talking about this new one just coming out of Israel!!!
Cannot get the Dailmail link.
How is life treating you !! Eve

Hi Dai
I agree with Janet,none of us knows what is round the corner,on a practical basis,we have tried to sought out our lives so that no one has that burden,but must admit it is now with the knowledge that Slim has MM,.

As for loving someone,I feel love can be painful,but would we be without it,I do feel everything has been worth the last 30…[Read more]

Hi Stephen

I could not reply to you E mail as you do not have an email address on your profile,but thank you for sending me a reply .

Stephen you will not get any quick relieve,everyday you will wake up,and be aware that Dawn is not there.
Min who lost her husband,found by making her world a bit bigger the pain was the same,but easier to…[Read more]

Hi Teresa

Well like Dai, Peter,s pain has been resolved,and as usual the carers have to stand watch and worry,it,s a place we have all been in,you have to ask yourself who you are angry with,the hospital or the hubby.Mine was both,for not taking on board my view.You are the one that shares this burden,sleepless nights,worring that they do too…[Read more]

Hi Helen
I think i maybe able to help,i have had 2 occupational health interviews.Now i had the choice either to attend at their offices or have a "over the phone interview".I had the over the phone version which saved me a 24 mile round trip.
After the "interview" you will/should receive a written report of the meeting,below are the…[Read more]

Hi Dai

I tend to think its the not knowing with all the anxiety and the inner knowledge,that even though you have MM,you know in yourself that something is not right,but when the experts say your ok,doubting Thomas comes in.
I have to ask what would a X ray have cost 9 weeks ago!!!!.Even if they thought you were wrong,what about your peace of…[Read more]

Hi Helen

I thought every employer had a duty of care,so one can only assume,they are looking to see if your fit or may be a big fat pension.I suppose it depends what your job was and how long you have been off.

I know someone on here worked for the NHS although she returned to work,her general treatment seemed so unfair.i think a few on here…[Read more]

Hi Ian glad your ankle problem wss sorted out quickly and simply It sounds as if you have a really good doctor which makes such a difference When I have had unexplained pain, such as you have under your arm, my doctor always offers an mri to reassure me which I think shows they see us a whole person not just a set of symptoms . Heres to your CR…[Read more]

Blimey Dai you dont do things by half!!Thank goodness you have Janet watching out for you she must have been so worried . I think the sweats are likely to be Revlimid , when I was on it I would pour with sweat at the least exertion and I still have the same problem now I am on Thalidomide. It does get very embarassing but I suppose there are worse…[Read more]

Hi Jean well thats a coincidence , they probably wouldnt be too chuffed if it happened in ten years time ! They are both so beautiful such lovely eyes Hope you are having a lovely Easter love Bridget x

Hi Everyone

I put IMMUCINE vaccine and got all the gen from the net,it does sound promising, they were talking about it going on world trials,so uk may be in with a chance.At the moment it is on trial 3,in the main hospital.

Lets hope there is a good response love Eve

Hi Eve yes my eldest daughter is fast becoming just like me but she cant see it ! I realised years ago that I sounded more and more like my mum, although Idont want to end up saying the strange things she does since her stroke!! Still thats what makes the world go round and keeps history alive which I am glad to be part of love Bridgetx

Hi Bridget
I come out with things all the time,and my kids think I am daft as a brush,I put it down to me being a Liverpudlian ,and my children are Southeners.

They do say I am sounding more like my late mother every day,having three girls I get the last laugh as slowly they are all sounding like me,specially my oldest Ruth who has two…[Read more]

Hi Gina and sister
Lovely to hear from you,and to see you are moving on with your lives,that,s what your mum would have wanted,lets hope this less crying days as as this is also what your mum would want.
I think you feel it more on days like mothers Day and birthdays,the knowledge you can no longer pick up the phone and have a chat.

As you…[Read more]