Hi Stephen I relied on the newcomers page Bridget

Dear Mavis I have not been up to speed on here lately as I have been a bit unwell so sorry I havent sent you a message. You have really been through the mill yetr your "smile" shines through still . I am glad you are getting your pain sorted even if the juggling does take a bit of time. It sounds as if the hospital is good at getting you the…[Read more]

Hi Keith thankyou that does sound very promising, hope it gets the green light even if it takes 6 years. As you say if it came to it whats a flight to Israel compared to a good result. I knew I should buy a Proper Newspaper on Sundays then I wouldnt miss gems like that But those Sunday Trashies are hard to resist !!!! Take care and hope you are…[Read more]

Hi Ian swollen ankles does sound like water retention , worth getting it checked out. I always get swollen ankles and calves when on Dex or Prednisalone . Ferusamide tablets are used to get rid of excess water and you should put your feet up as high as possible when sitting, doesnt mean you get to bew fed peeled grapes though!! Keep drinking lots…[Read more]

H i Stephen I am so sorry for your loss Dawn must be missed by all who loved her but for you it must be like losing the other half of you As Eve said hang on to the good times and talk with the children about Dawn a lot it will help you all. How very generous of all your friends and family to have raised all that money for M.M.U.K I for one am…[Read more]

Hi Stephen

My heart goes out to you,mainly selfish because I know one day I am going to be in the same position as you,I hope that does not seem unkind,why has it taken you so long to find this site,people on hear understand exactly what you are going through,some have already been there,and others are preparing themselves,but hoping there is a…[Read more]

Hi Ian

Swollen ankles,sounds like water retention ,Slims ankles became very swollen on Velcade,had to buy socks with loose fitting at the top.only just managed to fit into his boots,I use to massage his feet and legs which gave him some relieve.
He did not have PN until he finished Velcade,he only has it sometime,s I think it is just a…[Read more]

Hi Teresa

I would say lots of deep breaths are needed,you do not say if you have any support from children or friends,this is a time for some help.even if you can just have a few hours break ,to recharge your batteries.If you just need to chat come on here,someone will all ways reply:-)

Lets hope for some new treatment soon.Love Eve

Hi Dai

I think you have said what a lot of people feel,you see so many people coming on here for advise help or just to explain how they feel,some never to be heard from again,and some just can not cope with the whole process,and as we have both said some who cope for years and then just post. I would not pretend to know why they post and we…[Read more]

Dear Gina

Good to hear from you that you are all gradually coming to terms with your big loss. Don't forget, too, that you have also had all the sad hard MM journey to walk with your Mum before this. Coming to terms with loss takes lots and lots of time. Be kind to yourselves and dwell on those good memories. Think often, "what would mum…[Read more]

Hi Nicola lovely to hear from you Wow what a wonderful turnout for your dad you must have felt so proud of him. When I was very young I was scandalised at people smiling and laughing after a funeral its only as I got older I realised its such a necessary part of the grief process Those laughs and stories told at your dads wake are more precious…[Read more]

Morning Dai no wonder you have been losing sleep there is nothing worse than having a pain you dont know the cause of . I must admit I am very surprised your doctor dismissed your concern without even doing an x-ray . I think you are right to insist on examination of your shoulder as soon as !If it is mm then it does not necessarily mean your…[Read more]

Hi Kay I agree with whats already been said , you need to be kinder to your body !! Your determination is incredible but you have been through the most challenging treament and your body does need time to recover If you push yourself too hard now you could delay you recovery rather than speed it up so please listen to your body and rest when you…[Read more]

HI Gina its so good to hear from you although I think we would all have understood if you felt unable to post again. You and your family are doing brilliantly as you have all the way through your mums battle with myeloma The memories will get easier with time and there will be more smiles than tears just hang in there. I thought of your mum last…[Read more]

Hello Neelie!

It looks as if I was one of the lucky ones as my GP remembered about MM from his college days (one of his lecturers apparantly had done research on MM and must have been enthusiastic about it I suppose) and was quick to send me for tests as soon as I went to see him about my excruciating back pain, that would not respond to a week…[Read more]

Hi Eve and Dai thought I would join your conversation about morphine! Like you Dai I have been on it constantly for 5 years now The dose has increased from the early days as my pain has increased I have always worried about being so reliant on it but Iknow I cannot manage without it . I take 165mg of slow release Oxycontin twice a day, no need…[Read more]

Hi Sarah I am so pleased to hear Henry has done so well You must be relieved he got through it so quickly The hard bit is having patience now and learning to rest when your body tells you to Hope Henry gets a verry long remission love Bridget x

Hi Sarah
Always good to hear great news like that…Henry well done that man!!:-)
Cheers paul

Yes I agree Dai

Slim never had pn when on Chemo ,but he has it now,people have recommended drinking a glass of milk,plus another thing from boots coco ??????,if the gentleman who recommended it is looking in.I would be grateful for the name again.he said it helps him.

Dai I think its because it,s an anti depressant,Slim was of the same…[Read more]