Hi Gill
I'm so so sorry to hear it has come back. I know it is a real shock when you relapse. My mum relapsed in August 10 (after her SCT in September 09) and I remember revisiting all those feelings of when she was first diagnosed including fear, anger etc. She has been on velcade since August and has had a good response. She is now only having the velcade once a week and luckily has had very few side effects. So apart from going to the hospital once a week, her life has pretty much returned to normal.
Do you know yet what treatment they are planning?
As other people have said, there are lots of treatments out there and the outlook for myeloma patients is so much better than it was a few years ago. Who knows what developments will happen in the next few years. My little ones are aged 6 months and 2 and a half and I'm planning on my mum being around for many years to come to see them grow up.
Keep positive and take care of yourselves
Lots of love
Georgina
P.S. Those tesco vouchers are great aren't they!