Bl***dy NHS

Don't get me wrong I am very grateful that we have it but how frustrating it is at times. Stephen is still covered by our private health care. For how long we have no idea. We get copies of the invoices so have some idea of just what the treatment costs.

Stephen gets no different treatment than anyone else but it is always on…[Read more]

Hi min
I can help you on bank accounts,joint names is now considered to be your money do not worry about paying in cheques
in Peters name,Any accounts not in your name will have to go to probate as Peter has not made a Will, find a solicitor who does not charge the earth,do not be afraid to ask price and if your not happy,walk.

You can…[Read more]

Cannot help with the hospital as we are in Southern Kent and covered by Kings College London. Just wanted to wish you the very best of luck Gill

Happy Birthday Eve.

Min I had forgotton the paper bag and coin trick (it was probably a florin or so to start with:-) ) I am sure that "Grandad's Magic will be with all of you for a very long time. Much love from Gill xxx

Roz

Please don't feel you should not post how you feel on this site. I could not add anything to Mavis' post She was so eloquent.

Take care Roz. Love from Gill xxx

Hi Everybody and specially you Min,
It might not be the subject we want to talk about but it all helps,and gives us time to grieve.
Its my birthday today and since 9/11 I have felt guilty of enjoying it,then 5 years ago one of my sister-in-laws got cremated on my birthday it was such a sad day,and today i am in similar position another sister…[Read more]

Hi Everyone
Before Slim had this MM,We went to a few family funerals ,and on the way home,he said promise me if i die you will not go through all that clap trap.
As you might guess,he has no faith.He tells me because he was an NCO and doing full service,he has a right to be buried at sea.
When I asked why,His answer was,those b—ers messed me…[Read more]

I LOVE the fact that I put up this idea.

C'mon you lot let's not stop xxx

Sarah

Your story of Francecsa waving to her (in our home) Pop broke my heart too

Gill xxxx

Sarah

Your story of Francecsa waving to her (in our home) Pop broke my heart too

Gill xxxx

Love the idea of "Always Look on the Bright Side of Life" at your Dad in Law's funeral Bridget. Stephen wants nothing and the only way I can deal with it is to say "If you went first" He wants his ashes smuggled into France and sprinkled on the little patch of land that we own over the road from our house.

Come on Min keep posting. We all need…[Read more]

Firstly message to Bridget How much "happy juice" had you had before thinking that Terrapin included ARY?:-) 🙂

Secondly, many of you seem to be cheating asking your other halves 😉

Pay attention now I could put terrapin as my word as we have been left with ATE, but I will not. I will struggle and come back in a minute.

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Dear Dear Min

I think Peter has shown you a sign. You signed your last post Minx He knows how naughty you are:-)

Love you quote "God only takes the best. Greedy bas****"

Do keep visiting this site. You may get some solace from it but my selfishness knows that you will give advice and comfort to others. I am so selfish that I (obviously)…[Read more]

Hi Min
I was so glad i gave up work, being a nurse there is no way i could ever look after anyone again, i would only need someone to moan that i was late for a visit, and i would sock them one or two!!
Do you look at so many couples with greyish hair and feel so sad that the time to spend with gordon/peter has been taken away, that there is no…[Read more]

Hi

My word is INTERPRET that why i have not got a picture on here,the instructions are like a foreign language ,have to wait until the grand kids to come.

RET
PS,i will make another effort with the picture.Eve

Hi Roz and Min
I am also, like you Min suurounded by imagies of gordon when was well, I need help with my youngest son, who (thank go )lives at home with me,how selfish I am. Roz you are on this road ahead of me, i am sorry i do not know the words to help.

sarah xx

I love my life before this MM,travelling was a way of life,it brings everyone down to the same level,no keeping up with the Jones,s.Then everything changed

I now love walking on the seafront and sitting looking out to sea.
I love the way everyone says good morning as your walk along
I love bumping into people i have not seen for years,and…[Read more]