Hi Mark, I'm 51, I was diagnosed in November last year. As everyone has said the responses and survivial are very individual. When I discovered my diagnosis I thought 'oh fxxk I'll be gone soon', but I'm lucky enough to work in the medical area with some very straight talking friends – basically in the last decade progress has been such that MM is now a chronic disease and you can expect your dad to be around for many years to come. Survival at five years is given because classically in all trials and studies survival at 5 years is measured, however this doesn't mean 5 years life expectancy. If I have a single pece of advice it would be to find a doctor who you respect and trust and who communicates honestly with you – and then ask them what their honest opinion is.
Good luck and courage faced with this terrible shock.
Nigel
David, here in France I centrallise all the information and take it from the labs to the consultant, so its easier for us to keep an eye on, whihc would be great if I wanted to; in fact what I would like is for the medical staff to have the time to monitor it for me and take the decisions – such days are undoubtably over and mmodern patients have to be much more active in their healthcare.
Deb keep us up to date – I went down from 14 to 5 in one cycle, 5-3 in the next, 3 – 2 and I'm around 2 still. SCT in late May, though I'm not in hurry though with the PP levels so low.
Is there a connection between the fact that she didn't love him and his getting the Myeloma.
I've always been ahead of the trends (without even trying) so I reckon MM is the in cancer to have for sure.
Welcome Tracey. Good luck – you'll find lots of good information and support on the site. We're all in a similar boat, but everyone's situation is different. Good Luck. Preserve your health as much as you can. Be careful of the dexamethasone – I put on 6 kilos in 2 months …
Nigel
Hi Clara, Yes, Amyloidosis and Myleoma is pretty rare! I certainly haven't found anyone else with my condition, particularly of my age – it's very rare for someone of 42. Do you mind me asking how old your dad is? I'm guessing not that old if he is still working. I was at the Royal Free in the middle of February and started CTD on 3 March. I'm a few days into my second cycle. My biggest problem is the comedown from the dex during the days I come off it – my whole body aches and I feel pretty down for a few days. On top of that, I've suffered from some pretty heavy duty fluid retention, which has reached my abdomen and hips so that's pretty uncomfortable. However, on a good day, I feel pretty good and not at all unwell. Where in the body is your Dad's amyloid? Mine is in my kidneys, liver and spleen. My kidney and liver functions are currently normal, but I do have nephrotic syndrome and as a result I am on salt and fluid restrictions, which are pretty tough. I have no idea what my prognosis is – I was told by the Royal Free that the 3 month stage is crucial in making any kind of predictions. In terms of the myeloma, my haematologist believes I've had it for just a 'few months'. On the basis that I started having symptoms about a year ago with intermittent ankle swelling as a result of the kidney issue, I can only assume that the original underlying condition was MGUS or SMM and it recently progressed. My bone marrow biopsy shows a range of 20-30% plasma cells. I apparently have IGA type myeloma with pre treatment paraprotein levels of 6 and lambda free light chains of 152. Not massively high numbers, but obviously enough to kick start the Amyloidosis. A stem cell transplant was only briefly mentioned at the Royal Free and I was told I was 'a long way off a SCT'. I didn't question this at the time as there was so much to take in, but I don't know if this a good thing or bad thing. I too am on the Alchemy study and will go back in a couple of months. The plan for me is that they are looking for a 90% reduction in free light chains after 3 cycles. If this isn't achieved, then I will be moving onto velcade. At my end of cycle check up last week, my IGA levels have already fallen from 6.8 to 3.5, which was seen as very positive, but I am waiting to see if this has had an effect on the free light chain reading – I sent my blood sample off to the Royal Free last Monday, but haven't yet had any results back – has your dad had any results back yet?
Wishing you and you dad well and sending lots of positive thoughts your way! 🙂
Tracey x
If they do the xray it is to check the bones after all he does have Myeloma, so checkin on the bones is reasonble. They can also do Ultrasound and of course MRI
This is truly devastating. Good luck. The Velcade certainly seems to be working for me – but I seem to be one of the lucky ones.
Que bugerra
N
I'm fine, that's what's so amazing, I feel dreadful for 36 hours and then bing its all over and I can get on with life again. Yesterday (Sunday) I could hardly walk to the toilet, today I cycled 37km at 25km/h (average, hitting 50km/h and doing 35 a lot of the time). It doesn't stop the side effect being really disruptive (everything gets stopped and not everything gets started again) and hard to take when I have them, but then they are gone. Now I'd love to lose my Dexa belly – anyone got any ideas?
Hi, I'm sorry its rough. I spent nearly all morning sleeping having done the school run and having picked up my 12 year old daughter from school as she was 'feeling unwell' – I felt very shabby – rambling into her school unshaven and wobbly. Strange dreams, very vivid, of people I haven't seen for 25 years. Anyway, I'm now up an 'better', so I'm trying to pick up the pieces of what I was trying to get done before everything got shattered (chasing up reimbursement of the growth factors (they cost a fortune), preparing to prepare for the EU civil service exams, thinking about next weeks preliminary 'job interview' in Geneva, trying to sort out getting treatment during the easter holidays in Chambery rather than Paris – and trying to work out if the pain in my foot is an invisible wound or neuropathy – I hope its an invisible wound – then there are all the things I've forgotten about and the milliion little things, and the things I need to do but wont, and really I think I'll just get on my bike and go for a cycle ….
Hope all is well with you – the side effects come and go, limiting the damage, the disorganisation, the loss of continuity, the encroaching chaos, the overflow of entropy, is the hard part.
Wow! I couldn't have done any of that today, and I'm afraid I make it clear to everyone that I can't be expected to do anything or cope or be strong! I just fold like a house of cards. Tomorrow will be better.
Sounds like dexamethasone to me! :'-(
Oh I know. Just try explaining that to the family! They have a hard time following the variations.
I would have it checked. I was diagnosed following months of Side pain that always seemed to be moving around. In the end I noticed I had a 'broken' rib and got diagnosed. So it could be MM related. My paIn felt very muscular, it wasn't.