Hi Dai I am so pleased for you It is such a boost when test results are good and as you said now you know Rev and Dex are getting on with the business of getting the beast back in its lair!! I hope it gets rid of your shoulder pain quickly , no wonder you were feeling down pain like that is so unrelenting Heres to the future Dai its looking good…[Read more]

Hi David hope you start to feel better very soon love Bridget x

Hi Janet no wonder you are devastated five years is a long time to be in remission As Nettie said though there are so many new treatments available now and more in the pipeline which look promising Remember your doctors can suggest a treatment but the choice is yours! If you really dont want to go through an sct again they will suggest other…[Read more]

Hi Dai I second that the world is definitely a nicer place for all of us if the sun shines!! Like you I dont miss alcohol To be honest I only drank on rare occasions , mainly because it acted like poison and caused 2 day hangovers from hell !! No problem when I was young and out all the time but my consumption dropped when I had children and it…[Read more]

Hi Tom I am not too bad thanks You are so right about the warmer weather nothing makes me more miserable than being cold!! A little sunshine makes everyone happier , even getting served in a shop is nicer cos the staff smile back at you on a sunny day!! Unfortunately wine is a no-go for me , I havent had a drink since I was diagnosed 5 years ago ,…[Read more]

Hi Helen I know what you mean about facebook I dont think I could handle tweeting just cant get my head around it somehow!! I hope you shake off the pneumonia very soon it makes you feel wretched doesnt it Like you I was never ill till myeloma reared its ugly head but I have had pneumonia twice in the last few years I suppose chemo is as much to…[Read more]

Hi Helen this week has certainly been better than last !! I am coming to terms with the situationbut at the same time there are some questions I need to ask my doctors about possible treatments. I was thinking tonight that it would actually be easier , in some ways, if I were less aware about mm and the implications of various treatments , we…[Read more]

Hi tmc? as Helen said you are not burdening anyone we are all here for each other and most of us will need to let it out sometimes . I can understand a little of how you feel as since my diagnosis 5 and a half years ago I have been on every possible treatment since my sct All have failed to work for more than the shortest time and now I have no…[Read more]

Hi Andy good luck for Tuesday hope you dont have too many side-effects love Bridget x

Hi Debs thankyou and please dont be sorry for not seeing the post I have seen your facebook posts and its great to see you are getting back in the swing of things and feeling beeter than a few months ago So I am glad that you havent got time to come on here You are doing amazingly with your ball preparations I am totally in awe as I wouldnt know…[Read more]

Hi Zoe I am so sorry you and Dan are having to go through the nightmare that a diagnosis of myeloma brings especially as he is so young, I was 52 and still felt it was too young to have cancer It is a rollercoaster in the beginning because its all foreign even the words used sound strange but it will get easier I promise As Dans treatment gets…[Read more]

Dear Nicola I am so sorry it seems so unfair that you are going to lose him to this rotten illness after swuch a short time. I hope you can get him home but if you cant he will have the most important people in his life with him and will know how how much he is loved Your dad will never leave you , he will always be in your heart , wherever you…[Read more]

Hi Tina we are in a similiar position I also have a tumour on my spine which is very close to causing spinal compression Because I have already had radiotherapy on that site I was only able to have one dose this time . So back on Dex and hoping it keeps it at bay Hope the pain gets sorted soon, make sure they know how bad it is love Bridget x

Hi Andy sorry Velcade didnt do the trick hopefully DT Pace will . I had this a few years ago and its fine whilst you are having it but watch out when you get home it can knock you for six!! You will need to check your temperature regularly as it can set off an infection which needs very prompt treatment Fingers crossed it will be fine for you ,…[Read more]

Hi Paul glad you got hold of someone at last and I hope it gets sorted quickly for you love Bridget x

Hi Nicola sorry to hear Velcade didnt work for your dad but as Keith said you never can tell Its very possible that Revlimid will work for him even though Velcade didnt Hang in there hopefully he will start to improve with a new treatment plan Dont forget we are here if you need us love Bridget x

Dear Mavis so sad to hear you need to start treatment but hopefully CDT will knock the little blighter back !! I remember feeling exhausted and very weak after the first 2 cycles One bit of advice dont force yourself to do things because you feel you should be able to do them , rest when your body tells you . I didnt lose my hair either One of the…[Read more]

Hi Paul some hospitals have Macmillan advice centres based there pop in and see them If not ask your specialist nurse to refer you to Macmillan for help with benefits Someone will come and see you at home and go through it all with you . I think your GP could also refer you . Let us know how you get on . You will get backdated payments too which…[Read more]

Hi Paul I am sure you arent the only one to delay filling in those forms. I was like it too at first My advice is to get a Macmillan benefits advisor to help check your entitlement and fill in the forms with you If Macmillan arent avaialable try the hospital social worker Good luck love Bridget x

Hi Keith thankyou for the info but I did get a laptop , no patience at all !! In the end I got a decent one in the sale at PC World It was advertised at £520 before the sale and reduced to £310 Whilst I dont believe their pre-sdale price was that high I have seen the same one for over £400 so am quite pleased It does everything I need it to and I…[Read more]