Love the idea of "Always Look on the Bright Side of Life" at your Dad in Law's funeral Bridget. Stephen wants nothing and the only way I can deal with it is to say "If you went first" He wants his ashes smuggled into France and sprinkled on the little patch of land that we own over the road from our house.

Come on Min keep posting. We all need…[Read more]

Firstly message to Bridget How much "happy juice" had you had before thinking that Terrapin included ARY?:-) 🙂

Secondly, many of you seem to be cheating asking your other halves 😉

Pay attention now I could put terrapin as my word as we have been left with ATE, but I will not. I will struggle and come back in a minute.

:-/ :-/ :-/…[Read more]

Dear Dear Min

I think Peter has shown you a sign. You signed your last post Minx He knows how naughty you are:-)

Love you quote "God only takes the best. Greedy bas****"

Do keep visiting this site. You may get some solace from it but my selfishness knows that you will give advice and comfort to others. I am so selfish that I (obviously)…[Read more]

Hi Roz

Please try and push for a bereavement councelor I had a friend at work who did this on a voluntary basis. From what I could make out she was trained to allow people to be really angry and let their feelings out and move on with their grief.

I can remember being so angry with my dad when he left me (died) and then feeling so guilty…[Read more]

I am sure that I spelt frivalous wrong but I am determined not to look in my wonderful new dictionary. I'll just keep on sniffing it:-)

Am I not a bit too old to get an addiction:-S sniffing stuff cannot be good for you:-)

Dear Sylvia

Unfortunately Gaye died

All the best Gill

NECESSITY for all to find something to do with

ITY

PS EVE Photo needed It is like playing Cluedo in here you are the illusive Mrs Black

PPS Nothing to do with this but Stephen and I were trying hard to remember all the characters from Cluedo and trying to guess the year it was made (watching some inane game show)I was only a year out…[Read more]

BLIMEY

You are hot off the press Eve

MEY next

Dear Min

I am so pleased that Peter's service went well (silly thing to say but I hope you know what I mean).

Please don't be silent on this site. I, for one, feel that I have made friends on here and if you drop out it will be like a friend not being there with a friendly word.

Much love Gill xxxx

Dear Min
Thank you so much for sharing your loss with us – I look at my darling husband who cares for me and now understand better why he is at times fussy and overprotective (in my grumpy independent eyes anyway).
Having lost my first husband of 21 years to cancer I have been where you are. Two things – keep breathing and keep taking that…[Read more]

Hi Ali

I know that I have looked at a number of American sites and it seems that they carry out far more Allos than here. They do seem very successful if they are a strong match. (Stephen is an only child so no chance there)

He is on his second auto. As far as I can understand (and believe me, although not stupid, I do find it hard to get my…[Read more]

Dear Min

I thought long and hard before posting the link. I would have hated to have caused you more pain on top of what you are going through.

It was Stephen (after I showed him the video clip)that said I should post it and he believed that you, Min (even if you had had no idea about NS beforehand) would be glad to make sure that others are…[Read more]

OK one for all of us regardlesss of our age we should all sometimes behave like a

YOUNGSTER

TER anybody?

Dear Min

I do hope everything went well. What a lovely picture of Peter you have put up. I realise that it may be a while before you look at this forum again or, indeed, you may not want to come back to it but I am sure I am not alone in saying I hope you keep in touch.

Much love Gill xxx

How on earth did you manage to spell that Dai? I have heard it said before but the pronunciation is not lodged in my mind. Any chance of you spelling it phonetically for us so we can all have a go at saying it?

Anyway I digress

HOCKEY is now the next word

(how I hated it at school. Never very sporty I was always put in goal, got my stick…[Read more]

Not lazy Cheeky Chops:-)

I will NOTIFY you that I hadn't got round to it yet

IFY up for grabs.

PS years ago a friend at work sent us all a "roundtuit" it was a piece of paper cut into a circle explaining that it was our very own "roundtuit"

It listed a great many of the excuses/reasons for not yet having got round to it and informed…[Read more]

Dear Sarah

Maybe you and your son should take up "debating chairs" 2 people sit opposite each other and take a completely opposing stance on a subject.

Never personal, deeply religious or deeply political but usualy loud. It could be anything I am just glancing around now and know that my daughter and I could vociferously debate what's…[Read more]