Hi Roz as others have said I have had a visit from clergy too , nothing heavy just offering a chance to chat Please dont be upset by Michael talking to the vicar its often easier to talk to a stranger, usually because we dont want to upset those closest to us It doesnt really matter that this lady is a vicar either , it must be better for Michael to talk rather than bottle it up Perhaps she didnt say much to you because she hadnt met you , although I was surprised that she didnt ask how you were But dont try and read too much into it Roz ,dont let it worry you Hope the snowy weather isnt keeping you stuck indoors love Bridget x