Hi Richard
I was diagnosed at the age of 41 last April. We all know what you are experiencing. Trust me, things do get easier as time goes on. I had many bad days at the start but thanks to Rebecca and others giving me advise, in time things become more clearer.
I finished my CTD treatment back In June then had a break & had my SCT at the end of November. I read up on the SCT & it so stressed me out. If your going for the SCT I personally found it ok. The worry was the worst part but nothing didn’t happen except for a rash which fortunately didn’t itch. Everyone is different but please keep a open mind, as I have felt worse having the flu then doing a SCT. So if you read any bad story’s on SCT keep a open mind… I’m now in the process of finding out if I will be doing a Allo transplant with in the 6 months, not sure yet what is happening but we all have choices regarding treatment for Myeloma which is a poisitive thing.
Regarding work, just do what you feel you can do.. your body will tell you.
All the best and good luck
Dean