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  • gina45 replied to the topic It's Back in the forum Treatment 10 years, 3 months ago

    Hi tom, you was another that I remember from when mum was ill. I am so sorry to hear your news. Now you have to fight the bugger and stay positive. I hope everything goes well for you xxxx

  • I have not been on for a long while and was so saddened to hear this news. Dai was a very good listener, and giver of advice when I was going though the devastation of mum and her mm. He will be sorely missed on here and I hope he is now at peace. He is being laid to rest on the same day as my mum was 2 years ago. I am thinking of Dai’s family at…[Read more]

  • Hello Tanya, I felt i had to answer your post as i have been there myself. My dad passed away in 1989 age 52 of cancer he was an alcoholic and wasnt very nice to my mum as we grew up,but he was my dad and I loved him. My mum then found out she had myeloma in 2009 and fought bravely for 2 and a half years. We were all with my mum at the end and I…[Read more]

  • Hi Kerry My sister and I are doing a coffee morning/raffle/tombola on the 1st of December, my sister has booke the etherow lounge in the town hall in Ashton under Lyne. We are trying to make it bigger this year as it will be a year since mum passed. We have got lots of little prizes,the stuff for the drinks and people making cakes etc.
    But my…[Read more]

  • gina45 replied to the topic Waiting in the forum End of Life and Grief 11 years, 4 months ago

    Dear Sue, i am so sorry that you were told the way you were. my mum passed last november and we were told there was nothing more they could do and we asked how long, they couldnt say but did say imminent. mum went home and had palliative care there and she was glad that she got her wish. She passed very peacefully.
    I am so sorry you are facing…[Read more]

  • Hi Ellen, was with you all this time last year, but lost mum in November and finding it hard but mum would want us to carry on and be strong. We wont be coming this year but would recommend it to anyone else,it was a brilliant informative day and we met lots of lovely people that were going through the same, be them,patient,carer etc.
    I hope…[Read more]

  • gina45 replied to the topic So Sad in the forum End of Life and Grief 11 years, 6 months ago

    I am so sorry for your loss, its such a hard thing to lose a loved one to this awful disease.
    I am thinking of you and your family at this sad time xx

  • Gill i am so sorry on your loss of Stephen, i havent been on for a while but do check on you all. It always saddens me when we lose another. Mum was agitated the day before she passed, they say it does happen, mum was also given something in her drip they did say it wouldnt help her on her way but it would just help her sleep so that she would…[Read more]

  • gina45 replied to the topic 2 Months past SCT in the forum General 11 years, 8 months ago

    lovely to hear some positive news Eve,
    you book that holiday and have the time of your life
    Gina xxxx

  • I am so sorry to hear about Bridget, this is the thing i dread the most when i come to check on how you all are doing. Bridget was a great support when mum was ill and always commented on everyones post making sure that we were all ok, even though she was going through her own pain. I hope that she is at peace now. we know that our friends that…[Read more]

  • Really sorry to hear that you are not well Dai, lets hope the doc can sort you out and you will be back on your feet.
    Hope that you are doing ok, you take care of yourself
    Gina xx

  • Hi Min, its lovely to hear from you. Mum passed 6 months ago today. Still findign it hard but keeping busy trying to move on with life without mum. Its very hard but the family are looking out for each other and we try to get out together.
    We have put a verse in the memory book in our cemetary and we try to remember the good times with mum before…[Read more]

  • gina45 replied to the topic My Loss in the forum End of Life and Grief 11 years, 10 months ago

    Dear Carol, I am so sorry for your loss. We lost our mum to myeloma in november last year. We are finding it very hard without her,but we try to think of mum before myeloma when she was well. We do not want to remember her when she was fighting this awful cancer. mum fought for 2 and a half years. She was well at the beginning but near the end…[Read more]

  • Hi all, just thought i would bob in and see how everyone is.
    It's been six months to the day that mum passed away.
    We still miss her everyday, but we are also glad she isnt in anymore pain.
    My sister and I are doing a Myeloma coffee morning on the 1st of December.
    I have spoken to the academy where i work and they are letting us do it at the…[Read more]

  • Hi, i know i havent been on for a while but since mum passed away on nov 30th my family and i have been coming to terms with losing our lovely mum. I feel that we are dealing with our loss really well although we still have our crying days, as we call them. Mum fought myeloma every day and we are very proud of how she dealt with it.
    we go to…[Read more]

  • gina45 replied to the topic Grief in the forum End of Life and Grief 12 years, 2 months ago

    Hi Chrissie, i am so so sorry for your loss. I lost my mum on the 30th november 2011 to this awful disease that takes no prisoners. My family was with mum at the end at her home where she wanted to be. I tell myself that i am just pleased that we got mum home where she wanted to be and at the end she went peacefully. mum didnt want to be the way…[Read more]

  • Hi to you both im glad you are both doing ok, i am getting there slowly. The pics i have of mum around the house are ones where she is smiling and happy. I know it will take time and its still hard, but i have to be strong for my family. A fright night is where we stay overnight in a well in our case a very old town hall to see if its haunted lol.…[Read more]

  • Dai i am so sorry to hear your news,its always so sad to lose someone.
    My thoughts are with Yvonnes family at this sad time.
    Ian my husband, his brother died of an aneurysm in 2009( the year mum was diagnosed with myeloma). I do remember my mum saying at least i have seen my children grow up(Anthony was 0n 39 with 3 children under 5) You know…[Read more]

  • Hi, i hope you are all ok. Just thought i would post and check everyone is ok. Still missing mum more than i could ever say but now we are telling each other how mum would want us to get on with it, she was a strong lady. We have more or less sorted everything out and are now looking to the future. My sister and i are looking at doing a fright…[Read more]

  • Hello Michelle, we lost our mum on nov 30th this year, mum knew there was nothing that could be done so she told us she wanted to be home. we made that happen for her and she was happy to be with the people she held so dear
    We made sure that we spent all the time we could together and talked about all the good times.
    Mum passed peacefully in her…[Read more]

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