[gina45Participant]

Hi to you both im glad you are both doing ok, i am getting there slowly. The pics i have of mum around the house are ones where she is smiling and happy. I know it will take time and its still hard, but i have to be strong for my family. A fright night is where we stay overnight in a well in our case a very old town hall to see if its haunted lol. a bit like most haunted. we will have to pay for it but we then get sponsors and that will go to myeloma.
Please keep in touch and let me know how you all are
Gina xx

[gina45Participant]

Dai i am so sorry to hear your news,its always so sad to lose someone.
My thoughts are with Yvonnes family at this sad time.
Ian my husband, his brother died of an aneurysm in 2009( the year mum was diagnosed with myeloma). I do remember my mum saying at least i have seen my children grow up(Anthony was 0n 39 with 3 children under 5) You know life is so cruel. I hope that you are ok, you take care of yourself.
Gina xx

[gina45Participant]

Hello Michelle, we lost our mum on nov 30th this year, mum knew there was nothing that could be done so she told us she wanted to be home. we made that happen for her and she was happy to be with the people she held so dear
We made sure that we spent all the time we could together and talked about all the good times.
Mum passed peacefully in her sleep and in no pain.We are just happy that mum was where she wanted to be and we comfort ourselves knowing that we did everything possible to make sure mum got everything that she had asked for.It is very hard that mum isnt here but we do try to remember all the good times. we keep our family close and help each other through the bad times.
but please dont give up yet, you never know miracles can sometimes happen.
You take care.
Gina xxxx

[gina45Participant]

yes i think i will join you with the lanterns and dont worry min they now sell eco ones that are kinder to the environment, so we can all buy them.lets light the sky up for our loved ones this christmas.
Gina xx

[gina45Participant]

Dai i have just listened to your song and was really impressed, you have a great voice and i love the song.
looking forward to hearing your new one.
Love Gina xx

[gina45Participant]

we as a family will miss mum tremendously, but we tell ourselves mum is in no more pain, no more gruelling treatment and no worries about whats next.
We also know that mum would not want us to be sad and crying she would want us to think about all the goodtimes, the laughs and the fun we had before she became ill. We hope that mum will be having a big party of her own up there with all the family that has passed.
We are having a peaceful family christmas but will be raising our glasses to our lovely mum xxxx

[gina45Participant]

thats lovely news to hear Tom.
Onwards and upwards , as you say 🙂

[gina45Participant]

Hi Jean i hope everything is ok with Frank, you cant be too careful with breathlessness, it can be blood counts are low but mum had fluid on her lungs, so make sure he goes and gets checked out. hope he is ok xx

[gina45Participant]

I totally agree, its hard to think positive although you have to do for the sake of the children
Gina xx

[gina45Participant]

Hi hope everyone is doing ok. Mums funeral was lovely , im sure she would have loved what was done for her. We have more or less got all the affairs in order.
Its still very hard we miss her so much feel like a part of us is missing. But mum would not want us to be crying all the time, we have to remember mum when she was well and happy. We also know that at least she isnt in anymore pain.
Thank you to you all for your lovely messages of support it is most appreciated.
Gina xx

[gina45Participant]

Thank you Eve,
we went to see mum today it was her 72nd birthday and we left her a card, we are letting some lanterns off tonight for her.
One thing though mum looked really peaceful so im glad i went to see her xx

[gina45Participant]

Hi David, i am so sorry about your niece she was still a young lady.im glad the service went well.
Its my mums funeral tomorrow and she is having the same as your niece songs she loved and the lords prayer etc. We did go to see mum today as it would have been her 72nd birthday and we left a card with her, we are also letting some lanterns go tonight for her.
I hope that you are ok. You take care of yourself.
Gina xx

[gina45Participant]

I will have my fingers crossed for you both Eve, its nice to hear some good news.
Tak care
Gina xx

[gina45Participant]

Thank you so much for all your kind words it is most appreciated at this sad time. mums funeral is on friday it will be an hard day but we will have to be strong. Mum is at peace now and you are right she doesnt have to fight this awful disease anymore. I do hope that you are all ok .
please take care
Gina xx

[gina45Participant]

Thank you all again,im glad you like the pics. mum was happy to be part of the day. she is getting tired now but still able to talk to us and that is what we are making the most of. Elizellen they arent all mine, nices and nephews. I have two boys Luke is 16 and joshua 6 thats enough for me lol.
I hope you are all ok xx

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