Hi Jaydee63,
I was reading your post and struck by the similarities Of our situations. My dad was in pain for many months and sent for physio amongst other things. After a fall a few weeks ago when he fractured his hip in several places he was diagnosed with MM. We were also very shocked. He’s 85 years old and quite bewildered about it all. He is also very deaf but won’t have a hearing aid and also a terrible patient. He had his hip made stronger with metal rods but he is still very immobile. He was discharged from hospital with only a walking frame to help him. As he is really intelligent and aware of everything obviously all communication goes through him but then he hasn’t heard what was said so we’re all in a bit of a fog!
The same as you it’s nice to be able to message people who understand! My dad is a widower so me and my sister are doing everything for him and it’s all very overwhelming for all of us!
Hope things are going better with your dad!