hi peter, my wife and i are recent also,unfotunatley your world is about to be turned upside down and inside out,but it's good you found the wonderfull folk on here to help guide you. ask your partner to try and take note's for you as to the question's you would like answered,information overload will confuse you and prevent you asking important question's when you see the consultant's. so write it down,eat healthy,and drink plenty,best wishe's june & john