Hi Mike,
I am sorry to hear that your wife is struggling with infections at present. I hope that they can get on top of things soon for her at the hospital. It must be very hard for you all as a family. You are trying to support your wife and daughter and look after yourself too.
Do you have a Maggies Centre at your hospital, or locally. If you do they offer support to children and young people whose parents have cancer. They can take part in Kids’Days which apparently run quarterly at some centres. You can find information on their website. http://Www.maggiescentres.org.
All the best and keep on doing the great job you are doing for your family. I hope you can find a way forward to help your daughter at this difficult time.
Best wishes
Judy