My husband is 54, obviously I want him to be here for as long as possible but after seeing him so poorly & struggling since March it’s hard to agree to something that’s going to put him through that again & I’m not sure how he’d cope with it himself, physicallyor mentally….as you say such a hard decision…such a rollercoaster since first diagnosis with so much to take in in a short space of time…thankyou for answering
