Hi David

Well cough's and cold's :-/ I have to admite from having my SCT I have never coughed nor had as many poorly chest's that I can remember :-S and I used to smoke but am sure the gunge that built up in my lungs must have gone by now Lol 😉

But if all I suffer is the bloomin cough and the odd bad chest then am sure I will cope with…[Read more]

Hi Dai
I agree with Janet,none of us knows what is round the corner,on a practical basis,we have tried to sought out our lives so that no one has that burden,but must admit it is now with the knowledge that Slim has MM,.

As for loving someone,I feel love can be painful,but would we be without it,I do feel everything has been worth the last 30…[Read more]

Hi Stephen

I could not reply to you E mail as you do not have an email address on your profile,but thank you for sending me a reply .

Stephen you will not get any quick relieve,everyday you will wake up,and be aware that Dawn is not there.
Min who lost her husband,found by making her world a bit bigger the pain was the same,but easier to…[Read more]

Hi Teresa

Well like Dai, Peter,s pain has been resolved,and as usual the carers have to stand watch and worry,it,s a place we have all been in,you have to ask yourself who you are angry with,the hospital or the hubby.Mine was both,for not taking on board my view.You are the one that shares this burden,sleepless nights,worring that they do too…[Read more]

Hi Dai
Thanks for your reply. Photo was taken at my brothers house and knowing my sister in law it would be an Angel. Joan is mad abou Angels. Dai how is the shoulder pain? Has it eased any. I hope you are feeling better.

Love Jean x
Thanks

Hi Dai

Well your last post made me chuckle Lol, am not sure how you could have a "Elegant Sling" you must post a photo :-).

But I am very pleased you are well on the way to being sorted.
I am sure that's what I would miss the driving so your not bad as you can take the sling off to drive, just dont alter the rear veiw mirror.

Its great…[Read more]

Hi Jill

I am pleased your Mum is doing good on the velcade 😀 and i hope it stays that way.

All the best to you and give your Mum a cuddle from me xxxx

Love Tom "Onwards and Upwards" xxx

Aww Dai

You have been Janet's "brave little soldier", and I remember saying it could be "An age Thing" sorry M8:-/ and I know its a strange thing to say but at least you now know its a fracture and I bet your "well being " is better as you now know what you have to fight and you just might get less pain.

Good Luck with the "Coller and cuff"…[Read more]

Hi Helen

I had my SCT in December 09 but I went on sick in May 09:-( I was due to have one but they cancled it after they found out mine was "Reminal" (sorry folks for those word's :-S )

I wanted to go back to work its what kept me going on BAD Days, but all My Consultants and lead Nurses said I shouldn't go back to my work again as its too…[Read more]

It's frustrating though that there is limited support out there. I just about get the ESA (although am waiting for them to question that!) but am not eligible for DLA as I don't need support with caring for myself – I can just about cook etc but we have a cleaner as I don't have the energy for that. I wish I'd applied for it when there was NO WAY…[Read more]

Hi Helen

Think Paul has covered most things. I used to work in HR before all of this although it's been a while since I was on the advice side of things.

THey have a duty of care to see if you are fit for work….they shouldn't be asking you back if you aren't, but as with all business, are likely to take the view that if you are fit for…[Read more]

Hi Helen
I think i maybe able to help,i have had 2 occupational health interviews.Now i had the choice either to attend at their offices or have a "over the phone interview".I had the over the phone version which saved me a 24 mile round trip.
After the "interview" you will/should receive a written report of the meeting,below are the…[Read more]

Hi Dai

I tend to think its the not knowing with all the anxiety and the inner knowledge,that even though you have MM,you know in yourself that something is not right,but when the experts say your ok,doubting Thomas comes in.
I have to ask what would a X ray have cost 9 weeks ago!!!!.Even if they thought you were wrong,what about your peace of…[Read more]

Hi Helen

I thought every employer had a duty of care,so one can only assume,they are looking to see if your fit or may be a big fat pension.I suppose it depends what your job was and how long you have been off.

I know someone on here worked for the NHS although she returned to work,her general treatment seemed so unfair.i think a few on here…[Read more]

Hi Ian glad your ankle problem wss sorted out quickly and simply It sounds as if you have a really good doctor which makes such a difference When I have had unexplained pain, such as you have under your arm, my doctor always offers an mri to reassure me which I think shows they see us a whole person not just a set of symptoms . Heres to your CR…[Read more]

Hi Kirsty,

We'd all be lying if we said that the SCT was a lovely experience, but you do get through it!

The main things are to keep people away as much as possible for the 3 weeks you're in, and if possible for a month or so after. I only let my husband, and one of my 5 siblings visit….my parents and the rest, I made wait. I thought it…[Read more]

Hi Kay,

I'm with the others…think you are amazing to have gone back to work so much. I think about it and then know that I can't when i get ill from just overdoing it with the kids and looking after the house.
I suppose where you get joint pain, I get coughs and colds and exhaustion.
Perhaps think about doing a bit less if your work are…[Read more]

Thanks Teresa. I'm knackered!!!! So have a great excuse for a wee glass of wine of wine

Love Jean x

Hi Jo

That's my action plan!! I have 4 sons, 4 grand daughters and now want a wee grand son, but I would like him close at hand. I only have one grand daughter here and she is 14. Would just love a wee baby. We were supposed to be going out today with my sister and family but we have had real heavy showers so I gave the bathroom a good going…[Read more]

David
I am glad I met you too
😉
Love Jox