It was a welcome relief in some respects to read your post and I don’t think it is out of place. Like you, early 50’s, lost my sex drive after being diagnosed with MM Feb 23 (complicated by associated kidney failure) then Stem Cell Transplant in Oct. Unfortunately, I don’t have any solutions out there but hopefully my posting might encourage others who might have the magic answer. I can’t work out if it is the MM, the kidney failure, the amount of medication or just psychological. Probably all of the above!