tom replied to the topic Work – when is it enough? in the forum General 14 years, 5 months ago
Hi Ozzy
I know how you feel with the tiredness I am 56 and work mon to friday 6/2 and have to admit come weds am ready for a day off :-/
I also feel too young to retire and tell my young bride (elaine) that am sure the time will come when I have to take time off?? but not now 😀
Work is tiring but hey its supposed to be lol.
Keep fit…[Read more]
tom replied to the topic Advice Please! in the forum Newcomers 14 years, 5 months ago
Hi Nadine
A warm Welcome to tis great site, but am sorry you had to join.
I hope your Mum is doing well on her treatment?, As for the SCT I had one in December 2009 and am still in remission and doing well (am 56 now)
Please dont ask me what my para/bloods red or white marks are cos I just dont know (av bin told its a man thing:-0 )
But…[Read more]
eve replied to the topic That subject no one wants to talk about in the forum Carers 14 years, 5 months ago
Hi Everybody and specially you Min,
It might not be the subject we want to talk about but it all helps,and gives us time to grieve.
Its my birthday today and since 9/11 I have felt guilty of enjoying it,then 5 years ago one of my sister-in-laws got cremated on my birthday it was such a sad day,and today i am in similar position another sister…[Read more]
eve replied to the topic That subject no one wants to talk about in the forum Carers 14 years, 5 months ago
Hi Everyone
Before Slim had this MM,We went to a few family funerals ,and on the way home,he said promise me if i die you will not go through all that clap trap.
As you might guess,he has no faith.He tells me because he was an NCO and doing full service,he has a right to be buried at sea.
When I asked why,His answer was,those b—ers messed me…[Read more]
eve replied to the topic About as ff Topic as you Can Get -2 in the forum Off topic 14 years, 5 months ago
Hi
My word is INTERPRET that why i have not got a picture on here,the instructions are like a foreign language ,have to wait until the grand kids to come.
RET
PS,i will make another effort with the picture.Eve
tom replied to the topic I LOVE in the forum Off topic 14 years, 5 months ago
Hey up folks I have another one 😀
I love this thread as it throws MM out of the window
I Love the last post on here from Eve:-D all Eve's Loves are my Loves but I forgot them:-S now do I put that down to Chemo Brain or old age Lol
Tom xx
eve replied to the topic I LOVE in the forum Off topic 14 years, 5 months ago
I love my life before this MM,travelling was a way of life,it brings everyone down to the same level,no keeping up with the Jones,s.Then everything changed
I now love walking on the seafront and sitting looking out to sea.
I love the way everyone says good morning as your walk along
I love bumping into people i have not seen for years,and…[Read more]
tom replied to the topic Velcade and me and possibly how… in the forum General 14 years, 5 months ago
Your More than Welcome Sylvia, and it always the mental bit that helps us.
Yes its great to have the Grandkids visit we had two stay the night last nite (eldest sons son age three and middle sons son age six) Elaine and I are happy but tired lol.
Its never good news when one of our Online Friends pass away, like you say she was an Inspiration…[Read more]
tom replied to the topic I LOVE in the forum Off topic 14 years, 5 months ago
I Love My Wife and proud to say it :-D, My Young Bride's dog Charlie, I love My Work (and the money it puts in our bank) I love to see a well tended garden and good grass (with lines) but mine isn't:-S
I love all My Grandkids (warts an all Lol) and this site I love that, I Love My "Online Friends" from this site and others 😎
Have a well…[Read more]
tom replied to the topic Help…Is there anything on here about grieving? in the forum Off topic 14 years, 5 months ago
Hi Roz
Am sorry I know you are still suffering, Am sure its no good me saying "It will get better" as am sure you know that, its the now the tomorrow and the month after that you need help with, Am sure a Bereavement Councillor can help and the road through that could be the Mac people or your own GP.
I hope you get some help soon Love and…[Read more]
tom replied to the topic Velcade and me and possibly how… in the forum General 14 years, 5 months ago
Hi Sylvia
Am pleased our words were of a comfort to you:-D.
It wont be long before your glass is "Half Full" might even be today 😎 Pain must be a terrable thing to have day in and day out 🙁 me I only have a bit of discomfort on my right side, not sure what it is but Consultant tells me am still in remission so it looks like a visit to…[Read more]
eve replied to the topic Work – when is it enough? in the forum General 14 years, 5 months ago
Hi Amelie
The question,is a hard one,as a carer you will worry about it,is he doing to much?? but if he was at home would he be doing to much?,and the answer lies within his nature,his body his decision.
Slim my husband,the minute he starts to feel better,he goes over the top,thinks he can do every thing,you end up nagging,not helpful.
So now I…[Read more]
eve replied to the topic About as ff Topic as you Can Get -2 in the forum Off topic 14 years, 5 months ago
No excuse FLATULENCE LOL
NCE
Is there a smell round here.
tom replied to the topic Velcade and me and possibly how… in the forum General 14 years, 5 months ago
Hi Sylvia
Sorry to hear its not that good for you on the "Velcade" but dont give up more can and will be done, I know it will get you down knowing that the response is not the one you wanted and hoped.
You are correct this site is for the Support just as much the Information.
Good Luck Sylvia hope your next lot works better.
Love and…[Read more]
tom replied to the topic mums appointment in the forum General 14 years, 5 months ago
Hi Gina
Pleased your Mum has started the treatment, I hope it runs smooth for her and the side effects are down to a minimum.
Love
Tom "Onwards and Upwards" xx
tom replied to the topic New to the forum in the forum Newcomers 14 years, 5 months ago
Eve it feels like a well worn pair of shoes comfortable, but you young Ladies are more than welcome to pop in and throw in some gossip 😀 am sure Ted and I would love it 😎
Just taking a break from the New Kitchen I am fitting some Lino 😉 am sure I will regret it :-/ one slip of the knife and £70 has gone up the swanny :-S he he. then I…[Read more]
eve replied to the topic New to the forum in the forum Newcomers 14 years, 5 months ago
Is this becoming a men,s meeting point!!!!8-) 😀 🙂
Short and sweet no gossiping!!!!
What are you men like. LOL
Eve
eve replied to the topic Ecstasy for myeloma in the forum Treatment 14 years, 5 months ago
Thanks Sharon
Will look out for that,has his MRI scan on Sunday,With Slim its very hard to tell how much pain he is in,never one to admit to pain just the fact he takes Oxycodone hydrochloride and cannot do without it,and still is in pain is enough for me.Never touched a pain kill in all his life,even when he had a hip replacement,,broken ribs…[Read more]
tom replied to the topic That subject no one wants to talk about in the forum Carers 14 years, 5 months ago
Dear Min
I wish your family a safe trip home, I also am very pleased to read that Peters Story went so well, save the good parts that you went through with Peter's Illness and throw the bad bits in the bin.
You know where we are for the support that we can give you please keep in touch and If you feel I need a telling off then please give me…[Read more]
tom replied to the topic Work – when is it enough? in the forum General 14 years, 5 months ago
Hi Amelie
I understand John's and every one out their who has MM for wanting to have a goal so as to get better faster.
I also had the goal to get back to work BUT My Consultant and the Cancer Nurse (who's husband used to work with me) told me I should not go back to my Job, its heavy Work and would mean stress on my back arms and shoulders…[Read more]