Hi Vicky – thank you so much for your message. reading what you wrote was like I was telling the story…just how I feel. I have also thought about using all of this in a positive way, maybe volunteering somewhere or studying maybe?! Who knows.

I hope that Colin is OK at the moment – how are you doing?

Take care xxx

Hiya Tom – thank you for your message. We have something else in common..In May 2007 I was diagnosed with Fibrosarcoma, cancer of the soft tissue and I finally went into remission in June 2010 ..as Melvin was diagnosed with MM in the December. I have to agree with you regarding the comparison of feelings – I felt more in control when I was the…[Read more]

Hi Lorna..

My partner Melvin was diagnosed with a Solitary Plasmacytoma on 15th December 2010, so our journey started nearly two years ago. Reflecting back to those days, I felt scared and unsure of what it all meant, I remember that. It was almost like I went through some kind of grieving stage??! Things have really progressed for Melvin now…[Read more]

Thank you for your message Jean. Guilt is a very powerful emotion isn't it? I think it can be a visitor in most situations. Unfortunately, I over think absolutely everything too and scrutinize myself..'have I done enough?' etc..

We have been referred to Counselling, although the last two appointments were cancelled due to the Counselor being…[Read more]

Hiya – it seems to be all go for you at the moment. Fingers crossed that they soon find you a match. Best wishes Kerry and Melvin x

Hello Angelina,

I'm sorry that we meet this way. You do seem to have a lot to deal with at the moment and i appreciate what a very anxious time this is for you.

You say that you have had the bone marrow biopsy – have you had the results now? As far as I am aware, this does give an accurate diagnosis of Myeloma. It is my 39 year old partner…[Read more]

Thank you all so so much for replying to me. You all seem such caring people and I look forward to getting to know each and everyone of you. I'm off to bed in a min, it's been a long day in 'my' world today and I'm so tired. We are having a Care Alert Monitor installed tomorrow..and it's 'my birthday' so need my beauty sleep – 37 years old…[Read more]

Thank you all so so much for replying to me. You all seem such caring people and I look forward to getting to know each and everyone of you. I'm off to bed in a min, it's been a long day in 'my' world today and I'm so tired. We are having a Care Alert Monitor installed tomorrow..and it's 'my birthday' so need my beauty sleep – 37 years old…[Read more]

Hi Anne
So sorry to hear your rotten news – I do understand how very distressed you must be feeling – especially in view of your young family.

I was diagnosed in 2005 and didn´t neet treatment for five years during which time they monitored me and helped with the anemia. I have had chemo and stem cell transplant during the last two years and…[Read more]

Hi Cathy

Just a quick message to let you know that we are thinking of you both and just hoping that Ivan "turns the corner" soon. As everyone keep saying we really all different and my husband remember well the panick setting in as day 28 in isolation, feeling rotten and having constant infections conditions with absolutely no improvement in…[Read more]

Hi Cathy
Sorry I´m rather late in reading your post and am really sorry that you are feeling so worried – often it´s hard for those who have to watch loved ones go through this process.
It´s quite normal to feel rotten for a while I´m afraid but at least it´s making the cancer cells feel rotten too so it´s not all bad. I was really poorly with…[Read more]

Hi Paul
So very pleased to hear that you have had your STC and can´t believe they let you loose after only sixteen days – fantastic!
Hope your taking things easy and building yourself up – only once a week to the disco for a while I´m afraid.

Take good care

Very best wishes

Carol xxx

Yipee!!!!!
So pleased for you both and thank you so much for sharing it with us all. It really helps to boost us I am sure to hear such super news.
Have a lovely trip.
Best wishes
Carol

So glad to hear that things are going well.

Take care and very best wishes

Carol

Hi Ange
Just wanted to welcome you although I am so sorry that we all have to meet this way. I was diagnosed in 2005 and after chemotherapy and stem cell transplant I have recuperated quite well and am back doing most of the things I used to. Hope this gives you some encouragement.
This is a great site with such lovely people who are always…[Read more]