Hi Jo
Wanted to send. You my love and prayers. Go well.
Love Mavis xxx
Hi Helen
I was surprised you are needing so much treatment when, earlier, you were doing so well. What has happened about work?
Do hope you manage to knock the MM right back again.
Lots of love.
Mavis x
Hi Dai
I too am glad that your Consultant has come up with something after your disappointment about the Trial. I hope and pray that the Velcade and Dex will have a synergy that will work for you.
Lots of love.
Mavis x
Hi Christine and Chris
Also wanted to welcome you AND say so sorry Chris's treatments haven't worked.
SCT aren't the only way to go. Several of us on the Site are managing without and still keeping going! I see Chris was on Velcade and got nĂșeropophy. I haven't had it, but have read that having it by injection makes one less prone to it. Did Chris have it this way? Just a thought.
Hang in there both of you as it sounds, from what you say, that Chris's body is standing up reasonably well in spite of the dreaded MM.
Best wishes to all the family. I do hope your son does well in his exams in spite of the additional pressure.
Love Mavis x
Hi Karen
Just wanted to join others in welcoming you to the Site. Sorry you have had such a difficult time. Like you I find physio really works.
Very best wishes.
Mavis x
Dear Maureen and Ian
I do wish you well in your battle. I'm glad that you, Maureen, have the emotional energy to carry on with it.
I was misdiagnosed for months as worsening arthritis, when the fact I had reported weakening and falling (not results of arthritis) should have alerted GP. I also begged for Private Appointment with Consultant, but couldn't even get that! Consultant said if I went to him I would have to pay for ALL subsequent treatment!!!
When I was finally admitted to hospital ,when completely unable to bear my weight, a simple test, knocking my knee with no response, immediately alerted a general Consultant that something serious was wrong. THEN came all the tests, MRI, Full body xrays etc. A tumour on my spine was causing compression. This was removed within a week and Myeloma diagnosis followed. All this five months after I had started complaining of severe back pain. One physio told me my problem was "in my mind" because I had lost confidence! (I think that was my lowest point pre diagnosis.)
The General Consultant made a fuss for me, and as far as I know, protocols were changed in my area and folk were sent for MRI scans before they saw a Consultant. The laugh was, an Appointment to see a Consultant eventually came for a months after all this had happened.
I was very fortunate not to be paralysed as the Consultant said youe very rarely get the use of your legs back once you have lost it. For that I feel very grateful, but I could be walking much better now if I had have had that earlier diagnosis'
A couple of times I shouild have made a complaint myself, about my treatment, but it takes energy, that with everything elso going on is often just too much.
All best wishes to the two of you. Get truth and justice, not just for you, but for all of us.
Lots of love.
Mavis x
Hi Dai
Enjoy the break from treatment. Glad you are feeling a bit more like it.
Do hope your Consultant comes up with a good plan. At least she seems"on side" and you certainly keep challenging them which is good. I keep reading on the American Site of all these Trials for refractory patients. It's a shame we don't seem to have so many here. I wonder how much of it is down to money?
All best wishes and lots of strength for the battle – mental, physical and psychological. We MMers need them all!
Love.
Mavis.
Hi Jo
Glad to hear your treatment is going OK. How many more lots have you got to have. You know I watch you closely as another none ScT member of the Site!
I am going well, apart from an outbreak of cellulitis in my legs, not too serious, and lots of back pain. However, have just booked our flights to visit my daughter in Luxembourg in June. Have arranged to take my electric buggy with me!
Lots of. Love.
Mavis x
Hi Pat
I'm with everyone else. I'm sure you will quickly adjust to retirement. There are plenty of other things to do in lif!
If you find time on your hands, it isn't for cleaning, or in your case shopping, but for doing the things you value most. I still have to take up the idea from Jet's Blog, to list the 50 things I want to do before I die. Perhaps that's an activity for you when you finally do retire!
Let's hope we all have time for more than 50.
Good luck with the rest of the treatment. Is this your second fight with MM? I can't remember.
Love.
Mavis x
Hi Clare
Welcome to this Site. Sorry to hear your Mum has Myeloma. All of us on here know how difficult it is to comes to terms with this diagnosis.
Before your Mum decides perhaps she should ask her Consultant how agressive her Myeloma is. She has obviously responded well to SCT. There are several of us around your Mum's age, who haven't had a SCT, and are still here to tell the tale. In America some Consiltants are beginning to think the SCT shouldn't be the up front choice for Myeloma now there are so many treatment options.
One possibility is to ask to have a stem cell harvest, but not go ahead with a SCT at this stage.
Love to you and your Mum.
Mavis
Hi David
How I sympathise about your battle with pain. I am going through the same thing and my Consultant doesn't want me to take anti-inflamatories because of my kidneys. I have had to start again. Like you I have a goal in view. Visiting my daughter in Luxembourg in July – she is moving there with our only grandchildren so I have got to be able to manage it! I have started physio but that is finding out other muscles to ache! However I am walking taller on my crutches!
You have a lovely trip to London, sadly doesn't sound as if the weather is going to be too good.
Love
Mavis
Hi Ann
Sorry to go through your thread to reply to Peter!
Peter, did your Consulstant really say "cure"?!!!!
Do hope your pain soon subsides.
Love
Mavis
Dear Andy,
Like everyone else I am so pleased to hear your news. Keep getting those PPs down. Like Helen, although not a young one like her, I agree it's not all about SCTs these days.
Very best wishes to you and Steph have a great holiday.
Mavis
Hi Dai
I agree with you Post, but have you any ideas as to how we can take things forward. Do we need to ask the CO ofMUK to take this forward. The myeloma web site in America seems to have been able to make a real difference. Of course they have the advantage of scale, but still a Voluntary Org.
I have just responded to a circular/questionnaire that I received from the Yorkshire heamotology Society (maybe not the right name). I said I would be willing to talk to professionals in my area, about my treatment, if asked. Wonder how we can ensure such forums happen. Many years I was on something similar about the care of hip replacement ops. I think some things did change because of it. Maybe those areas that have Support Groups are in a better position to initiate something.
On a personal note, I do hope your treatment is going well.
Best wishes.
Mavis
Hi Ellen
I'm sure lots of others will say the same, is it possible to send on our love and best wishes to Keith's wife, and I'm sure many prayers will be said for him too.
Mavis