Hi Sue
I am glad to hear you are, at last, getting some support with Michael's care and like Tom, hope you get to visit the Hospice soon. However, now you have got more suppport at home, and you are having a stair lift put in, you may feel happier with Michael remaining at home.
Sorry you still haven't got the answers you need to put your mind at rest. I think it is important that you write down what exactly you want to know, so that you can get the answers eventually.
However, you probably wouln't want to be putting Michael throught the trauma of any more treatment, with all the hospital visits etc. involved, if it won't give him any better quality of life.
You both remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Mavis xxxxxxxxxx