Hi Victor,
Myeloma UK have just trained some peer-volunteers to assist on this forum. I am one such person and was treated for myeloma in 2019 with VTD and a stem cell transplant.
I am sorry to hear of your wife’s diagnosis and appreciate your role in caring for her and helping to manage her treatment. My wife was so helpful to me through my treatment.
Personally, I found that as the chemotherapy affected my sense of taste, I went off sweet food altogether but was often keen to eat savoury. Some weeks I ate nothing but cheese straws, then I’d go off those and only eat crisps. Lots of people will tell you to listen to your body and eat whatever you fancy – there’s certainly some truth in that. It’s hard to explain how the change of smell or taste can put you off food, but you may be able to find things that your wife can enjoy eating.
I found that exercise was so helpful throughout all of my treatment, and I’m sure this improved my appetite. Long walks were the order of the day.
After the stem cell transplant, I found that my appetite was very low. Gigner-nut biscuits were good as they also help with nausea, other than that tasty food like curry was actually easier to eat as everything else seemed so bland.
I’ll see if I can find anything from others and will get back to you.
Best wishes to you and your wife, hang in there and know that the treatment can be very effective,
Rich.