Hello, i too have a dear Mum with MM diagnosed 3 weeks ago, she is still in hospital and pain control is the challenge at the moment, as a family we are all shocked to see her going through this, she is 76 and has probably had it since last september as the shoulder pain started then but again the Gp thought that it was muscular, and when she had low back pain he thought that it was a slipped disk, so months on she has bone damage which is so painful and the fatigue is huge for her, she is on the Myeloma XL trial and we so hope that she will improve soon and can go home with our support, as with others we are all reeling with the diagnosis but with a community like this it helps and i know that we have to keep strong for her so thank you, San.