Hi Jonny
So sorry you have come across one Consultant that has no Bedside charsma (so to speak)
But like all us mere Mortals you either have it or you aint and your man bless him aint got it.
Mine is great I even chat to him in the middle of the shpping centre when he is out shopping 😀
As for me if mine was abrupt or rude he would have to be told "Fast" as its My Life that he is dealing with.
But if he is sharp and knows what he is doing then he can be rude as long as he knows he will get it back ha ha.
Good Luck to you Both and hope you soon get to "Bond"
Tom "Onwards and Upwards" xx