Hi Paul
Have a wonderful festive season, enjoy every minute!! And next year do the same, with a sct so early in the new year you will be up for partying next christmas!

best wishes sarah

Hi David

What a tragic loss of such a wonderful sounding women. I go round supermarkets shopping sometimes looking and thinking why not that person or that person i wish i could have some understanding, Gordon and your neice and patrick and peter had a lot more living to do.

My condolances to you and your family.

sarah

Hi Eve
Wonderful news!!!! so sorry that your complaint was taken so badly. Don't let the B—–s get you down! Keep smiling

Sarah x

Hi Roz
I am so sorry that you are unable to get the help you need. After gordon died the local hospice offered me councilling i threw it in bin, me need help pah! Stupid stupid me.It maybe worthwhile contacting your local hospice, they are supposed to help the likes of you and me.

with best wishes Sarah

Hi All

I do so agree with you, do it now tommorow may never come! Gordon,s love was his farm his land, his cattle me and the children came in there somewhere. We did very little travelling in the last few years mainly because everything he wanted was at home. Our last very difficult trip was to go to the Great Yorkshire Show we should not have…[Read more]

Well done Debs, we are having a coffee morning on 26th november in the old barn for MMUK have the tee shirts and ballons, anyone around that day near eastbourne please come it would be great to meet you1

Sarah xx

Dear Min

I guess all life and grief is so different to each indervidual person, no relationships is the same, I have no anger towards Gordon leaving me maybe that is yet to come, I just feel so cheated, we at last had some time and financial secutity to enjoy time together and with our beloved grandchildren and it will never happen now. I do…[Read more]

Hi Pincushion

I am knitting for the grandchildren at the moment, i could try to knit a badge! I am not a good knitter but bless them they wear my offerings!!!

with love sarah xx

Hi Tina

Well done on the windsurfing! I sail, not as physical as windsurfing or as wet!I am getting old. I get tearful when I return home from holiday, no Gordon to chatter to.

Take care Sarah x

Dear Gina

I am so sorry to hear about your mum, I am sure that the time you and your family have with you mum will be very special and give you all a great deal of comfort.

Cyber hugs Sarah

Dear Gilly

I too worked for the NHS I took time off when Gordon was ill having treatment etc. MY GP wrote me off with stress, a month at a time, it worked well for me, I am now retired and Gordon has died wish i had retired earlier. Stick in there Gill.

Dear Gill I thought if written off sick managers were not allowed to phone you at home or…[Read more]

Hi Min

Have a wonderful time, I have just got back from Devon it was lovley ( not so hot as Dubi). Look forward to your post when you get back!

Sarah xx

Hi All
Like Nettie, I to thank MUK for this site. Life is not so happy for some of us at the moment. Gordon died in august his father was in hospital at the same time and last monday FIL had his 90th birthday, still in hospital, yesterday he came home, today I went to see him, not his fault, but Gordon looked like him in his last 24 hours, every…[Read more]

Hi All

Have only just found this post very interresting, I sometimes wonder in my frequent bleak moments if Gordon would still be alive if we had carried on going to Kings, instead of our local hospital. Gordon went downhill very suddenly, i kept mentioning velcade but was told it was not appropiate, we had to fight for it 1st time round, post…[Read more]

Hi Julie
So sorry to hear the sad news about your mum,I am so glad she was at home with all of her family near, a great comfort for all of you, as I know only to well.
Best wishes sarah

Oh Min and Roz wish you both lived near cyber hugs to both. xx

Hi Girls
Had a lovley today judging cookery at a ploughing match ( know nothing about judging, went on the flavour!) I came home to a silent house I could not tell anyone about my day, who i had met, the local farmers who asked how i was and how sorry they were. Roz, Min and al the others, it is the lonliness that gets me.Onwards and upwards…[Read more]

Dear Gill
Thank you, I have just make a beautiful, lumb free white sauce! I was so angry reading you post I took it out on the sauce, how dare the banks play fast and loose with OUR money, they are so arrogant, uncaring, taking OUR money and doing as they see fit wasting it in dodey deals then whining because thier bonus is so small 1/2 a million…[Read more]