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Dear Ellen
I think another post is needed, I have had such suppourt from this site and to leave now will give me another hurdle to overcome with Gordon and my father dying within 6 weeks of each other any help is gratefully recieved, plus hopefully we can help each other, it is great to know that i am not the only one going mad, becoming very angry with everyone, particulary mobile phone companies. I am also very aware that it is so easy to say the wrong thing in the wrong way and upset many friends on the site who coping with mm, some of who are having wonderful good news at the moment, those who do not wish do not have to acsess the site. Thanks Ellen and all at muk for being on the end of the line or cyber space.
Sarah xx

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Hi All
My fathers funeral today, what beautiful weather!! Had a wonderful funeral lunch with his friends and family, i cannot grieve for him, he was 86 for goodness sake!! Vety healthy all his life no chemo or sct for him, I feel for Gordon though, he now has my mother and father sitting on his cloud!! My little granddaughter still waves to papa on his cloud. Thank you Dai for you lovley post earlier, wish i had your way with words.
Sarah xx

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Hi Eve and Roz
Not to sure how to reply to you both, Roz I understand the lonelyness and I have children and grandchildren around all the time there is no one to chatter to about the day to day things!!
Eve my boat partner is very deaf takes her hearing aids off when we sail, very difficult to sail with a partner who cannot hear, but we managed somehow, I never think she is stupid, she is a proffessor at sussex university and gets her grants from cancer uk, a charity close to all our hearts!
Not sure if i have replied to posts but Roz i do know where you are coming from.
with love sarah

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Hi Dai
What lovley news!! Enjoy do what you want to do, just do!!
with love to you both sarah xx

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Dear Min
I have also missed your post, cyber space!! Everything you say I agree with so much, Gordon and I at last had time and extra finance to start to enjoy our free time together, to say I am so bitter to know we never will, is an understatment. My cousin proudly told me yesterday that she had 'beaten' me as she had celebrated her ruby wedding, I scattered Gordons ashes on our 36th wedding anniversary, she reduced me tears where do the tears come from do they never dry up!!?
Sorry to moan lovley cyber friends.

Keep well

Sarah xx

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What a good idea min! I find that i am unable to leave the group, how do you abandon cyber friends?
Cars, well in April i changed my little MG Midget which i only used in the summer for a mercedes slk 250 convertable, i can put a child seat in the front no back seats, totally impracticle, but such fun, no room for any luggage or a big food shop! Gordon made me buy it, I did not argue for long!
Enjoy your holiday Min, I am going to france next week with friends, we were both asked in January, I tried to duck out, but was not allowed to, I hope it will work, lots of champagne and hopefully all will be well.
Sarah xx

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Hi Min
thank you for sharing your finds in the loft of what is obviosley a very loving and loved husband. Maybe one day I will understand why such loving and loved husbands, wives, children are taken when young and still have a lot of living yet to do. Today I found out i am to be a grandmother twice next year! My daughter in April and my son in May, I am so happy but I am so lonley too, there is nothing quite like a spouse to natter about the children/grandchildren with, friends are wonderful but.
with love sarahXX

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Hi Bridget
I do hope you feal better soon, I am so sorry you had such an awful journey home, hope you slept well and the antisicky pills worked do you ever try ginger in its various forms? I always knew when Gordon felt bad as he craved ginger!
Many cyber hugs Sarah xx

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Hi Dai
He never woke up just carried on snoring! My father was a very fit man going blind when gordon died he was very distressed and decided he no longer wanted to go on living.Very sad but that is what he wanted.

Dai I just love the way you write and describe the way you feel it is wonderful.

sarah

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Hi Gill and Eve

Une grande rose s'il vous plait.
Cannot spell anything else
well done Gill enjoy
sarah xx

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Hi All
My father died this morning, not unexpected, just wish I could feel something.
with love sarah xx

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Hi Dai
So pleased for you and Janet, long may it last. Do not feel guilty for having this wonderful news we need on this site some good positive results, it really cheers me up to know mm does not have its way all the time!.
Look after Janet ( what stupid thing to say!)

with love sarah xx

dreadful spelling

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Hi All

I love the sea, the smell, the colours, how it is never the same and the danger, the sea demands and deserves respect!
I love my children my grandchildren
I love the South Downs and the beautiful green, springhy turf, that looks like vevet.
I love the fact that I have rediscoverd my sister after Gordon's death and the fact that I have so many supportive friends and family, who are still with me or on the end of the phone
I love this site which has been my savour in the middle of the night
I love all my cyber friends, there are many times when I fel i have said the wrong thing and maybe upset some of you, I love the way my cyber friends never tell me so.
I love all of Dai's posts I love he uses the englosh languge
Loads of spelling mistakes too idle to look up the spelling, my loves are in no particular order!
with love sarah xx
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Hi Min

Lucky you!! I have not been able to rany and rave at anyone, they have all benn so kind, but i did tell o2 they had lied to me and i cancelled gordons phone, but i was very polite, whats the matter with me!!

Eve do appriciate what you are saying there are many sick people out there, what a dreadful thing to happen to Slims money, funny the pension people took someone's word that she had died, bet any company taking money from her would have wanted trible proof!!

Love to you both Sarah XX

Ps my dad still snoring now a week with no fluid!!

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Hi Min
Love yor story of yhr flowere from british gas!! I am longing for a good row!! I have told o2 the phone people to shove it, but very restrained, companies seem ready to take advantage when reacently bereaved try to sort out the paper work. Tried to stop the credit card after 8 mins on the phone waiting, thought s…d it so we are carring on using it as the buissness account pays the bill anyway. Might end up in court!! Might be able to have a good row there!!

Sat with my father last night as the hospital called us in, we gave up and 9.30pm and went home, when i phoned this morning he is still snoring away as he has been for the past week, very strong these old people who went through the war!

Hope the painting goes well Min, the other posts are right, our joint account is in my name now and keeps going, my son had two wins on the premium bonds yesterday as well, ERNIE must have decided to pay out some money for once!.

with love sarah xx

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