Hi All
I've had quite a bit to drink and in agony before I came on site.
Nothing went to plan!! I got a phone call last Thursday that Michael was in agony, scared,distressed and lots more. He believed I was having an affair because I wasn't there. So since that day till 8.30pm last night. I was in his hospital room, in and out of my chair and sleeping in it if you call it that.
I've dealt with alsorts, its been painful, hard and distressing. I darn't sleep because of what I keep seeing. Hoping the 2 wines and hot brandy and lemonade will help, cos I've really made myself ill. I should be in bed now cos my legs are like elephant trunks.
Any way Michael refuses to go!! His breathing has gone from the shallow croaky to deep heavy breathing. He is at peace without fully dying. Due to making myself ill and lack of sleep. I came home last night. I'll go again boxing day if I don't hear from the hospital telling me that his breathing is changing. They expect it to be around another 4 days time. But noone knows. From being so ill to be moved, he has defined all odds and will not cross over the line. I keep breaking and try and stop myself from seeing all things I have seen so pleae forgive me if it upsets anyone. Michael has been through hell and only I could comfort him. I feel sp quilty for coming home but the doctors and nurses were worried about me. My agony of pain brought me home too, but I still think I have let him down.
I've still got the next hurdle to deal with yet and then I may break and cry for ever.
Thanks All
Sorry if I've upset anyone
Roz