Hi Nikki,
My dad had his stem cells collected on 12 February, returned on 1st March and he was out on the 15th March. Dad was told it takes three weeks to prepare the stem cells but his were quicker because he was the only one having his collected that day and everything was ready.
With regards to the SCT, it is tough but the way dad got through it was to stay positive and eat something even if he didn't feel like eating (dad ate custard/jelly and bananas). For dad, the worse thing was the constant sick feeling and two or three days of bad diarrhea. Doctors can give you medicine to take the edge off this but it's still lurking in the background. He would also say to strictly follow the mouth wash regime to help avoid problems with a sore mouth.
One thing that we were lucky enough to be able to do was Facetime (similar to skype but using IPads) him in hospital. This meant that he could speak and see Mum and family members (especially grandchildren) whenever he wanted and we were able to connect with him to show our support but were respectful when he didn't feel up to talking.
Obviously dad's out now (1 week tomorrow) but has still got a long way to go. He finds a shower exhausting but he'll get there as long as he is patient and doesn't over do it.
I wish your dad the very best of luck in his SCT.
Kind regards,
Louise