Dear Sarah
Is she any happier now shes made the decision?
I'm pleased she made a decision she wanted not what she thought she ought to do
Maintenance is common in USA but sadly not here unless part of the myeloma trial.You could call lovely Ellen at myeloma uk helpline she can find out if any maintenance trials for people not having SCT
How many cycles od CTD has she had?I realise shes feeling worn out but if she can have the max cycles or have it prolonged to get her best response then she will get the deepest response she can and hopefully have far more "normal time without drugs ie a longer remission.
Many recommend that say 8 cycles are allowed if at 6 cycle person shows complete response or has stayed same they should do another 2 cycles to deepen the response,some drs here seem to think levels ok at say level 6 and stop but thats not whats written as to how it should be done.
Do you know what her paraprotein level was at start and what it is now?
If shes having side affects they may agree to reduce dosage and continue? Thalidomide does make many very dopey and this increases with dose ,I only managed 2 weeks on it as my cognitive skills when dreadful but velcade suited me
Also do you have a macmillen nurse? they are supportive for both you and your Mum and can liase with hospital etc if needed
hugs to you I helped my Mum when she had breast cancer and its hard having your views and theirs differing and wishing to have a magic wand
Is she harvesting her cells just in case she changes her mind in the future(they can be frozen for 10 years)
If was me i would be happier to have them frozen in case i changed my mind she needent have cyclophos prime (consultant mark cooke at qe Birmingham does use it for 1)
http://bloodjournal.hematologylibrary.org/content/114/27/5436.long
maybe useful info goes through all the steps including what to do if patient not having sct(you could show dr the relevant part?)
best wishes PS I didnt have SCT after first treatment had no maintenance and got 12 months before needing next treatment the average response/remission from sct is 12 months to 18mths
Sue