My brave husband Kevin has finally lost his battle with myeloma

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    BADGER
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    Susan

    I was so so to hear about Kevin my thoughts go out to you and you family

    I followed Kevins story from all his post on the old site he was an inspiration to us all and yes one of the good guys

    God bless Jo

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    Gill
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    I am so sorry that Kevin has gone. I just want you to know that I am thinking of you. Gill xxx

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    Roz
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    I'm so sorry Susan
    I'm thinking of you and if you need to email me you can, having lost Michael last December, I know how you must be feeling.

    Love and all the best at this time
    Roz

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    KeithH17
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    Dear Susan,I've only just read of your sad loss and my heart goes out to you and your family.
    The last time I saw Kevin was at the "Peer Group Network" meeting in London last year when as usual he was very upbeat and positive.
    He was a great guy and I always enjoyed talking to both of you.

    God Bless and remember we are all here for you at this sad time.
    Kevin left a positive legacy to all of us and will never be forgotten.

    Keith.

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    michelleakitt29
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    Dear Susan

    just to say that my thoughts are with you at this very sad time…..cant believe that i have not been on here for a couple of wks and then found 2 very sad posts.
    with much love michelle x x x

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    susan123
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    Dear Susan,

    I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of Kevin, he was a soldier to the end.

    Love Sue xx

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    SharonG
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    So sorry to hear your news Susan, My thoughts are with you

    Love Sharon x

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    KWilson
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    I am saddened to read this – he was such a big part of the group. I wish you and your family strength at this most difficult time.

    xxxxxxxxxx

    #90468

    RogerBrownless
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    Hello Susan,
    I have only just found out that Kevin had passed away last year. I appreciate that we were not really that close and our last exchange of emails was last year. I am so sorry that we did not know this had happened, I would of course have attended his funeral. You are very welcome to contact me if you so wish,
    Sincere Condolencies
    Kevins cousin
    Roger Brownless.

    #90469

    Susan
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    Thank you, Roger, for contacting me regarding Kevin's death. I'm sorry that I didn't let you know when he died, but you both weren't close.At the time I didn't contact a lot of people because it was too painful. Why were you on Myeloma site? Was it because of Kevin, or has someone else in the family got myeloma?
    Reading all the wonderful messages upset me again. Everyone was so kind. I wish you and everyone else a Happy Christmas.

    #90449

    Susan
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    Dear Tina,
    I'm sorry that I didn't reply personally to you last year, but I was so overwhelmed by Kevin's loss. How are you getting on ? Our husband's both died at roughly the same time.
    I try and take each day as it comes. I try and keep my life busy, but you still come home to an empty house. I find you can be getting along just fine and then you hear a song or see something and the memories come flooding back and it engulfs you. At this time of year it's especially hard. I do wish thoughtless people wouldn't send cards wishing you the best Christmas ever !!
    Do hope that you are getting on ok?
    I wish you all the best. Once again, thank you so much. Love Susan xx

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    Susan
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    Dear Roz,
    Just re-read all the kind wishes sent to me last year and wanted to say sorry that I didn't reply personally to you. How are you doing ? It's hard at this time of year, isn't it ?
    Do hope that you are getting lots of support from friends and family?

    Once again, thank you so much. I really appreciated all the wonderful messages I had about Kevin. I cried when I read them all again.

    Love from Susan xx

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    Tina
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    Dear Susan,

    So lovely to hear from you. How am I getting on? apparently much the same as you. Patrick's passing seems just like yesterday, I relive all of our conversations and his anguish and confusion during his last week with me almost every day.
    When people ask me how I am I really do not know how to answer. Like you I try to keep busy which allows me to shut out the pain. With all he was going through Patrick was worried for me more than himself so I owe it to him to be strong and get on with my life.
    I hope that you may find the strength to keep going and be as positive as posible.

    Best wishes

    Tina X

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    Roz
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    Hello Susan

    Thank you for your kind words. I hope you are coping well. My grand-daughter put my Christmas tree up because I still feel like I'm celebrating his death.

    Please try and remember the good times you both had, don't hold back your tears because I found out you need to let them go, I still do that because I held them in for so long.

    Please get in touch when ever you need anything.

    Love and Best wishes
    Roz

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