Hi Judy
It is not unusual to feel this way,after a few months any one will tell you it is part of the grieving process.You want answers and are entitled to ask questions.
I have always made a point of keeping records of blood results as they can tell you a lot about a persons condition.
When you saw the consultant on the Tuesday who told you your husband was in remission,were there not bloods taken before consultation!!!!!!!
Did your husband have an autopsy !!!! did they give you an explanation other than he had no platelets!!!!Why did he get taken to hospital.!!!
Did you see the consultant after your husbands death for an explanation!!!.
Platelets take a long time to reproduce themselves ,there is a condition were the body needs help to produce more injections or a closer match of platelets are needed.
If the neutrophils are down below 0.5 then you are considered to be neutrapenic and need treatment.
I would be asking to see the consultant take some one with you,and ask questions,better to know than keep asking your self WHY.
I hope this is some help,it might be worth ringing Ellen,who cannot comment on your case,but will be able to tell you some facts.
I myself have taken Slim into A&E and why they dithered around waiting for results of blood test,I have had to stand my ground and tell them to give him antibiotics,as time is of the essence.No fun standing up to a doctor,but learnt my lesson from previous experience when they turned him away from A%E and admitted with septic pneumonia.9 days ITU.
Hope this helps,will not bring him back, but should answer WHY.Eve