Hi Rebecca

I have just looked into your profile as no picture! And see how much you are now helping other people, I know I was too blunt at times! But you seemed to be able to get the message across very well, this is the way it should be,helping each other on this journey,then leaving that road and going on a different one.

It makes all of us…[Read more]

Vicky
It goes without saying how sorry I am to hear your news.
i know the auto pilots switch is on for you now,it takes awhile to realise how exhausted you have become,it’s very hard to cry and mourn.
Just try to cope the best way you can,these last few years you have held everything together,being strong for everyone,I can only say,be proud of…[Read more]

Thank you Ann

I have come along way in the last 5 years, 4 years of Slims illness and 1 year on my own,it’s a big learning curve,and I still look in on cyber friends,see how Tom or Andy plus a few others if they don,t post on the Facebook site UK Myeloma ,I worry. So Myeloma never really leaves my world although Slim has gone.

I just wanted to…[Read more]

My condolences to your family.

As many have said on here,Scott always seemed to be beating the odds,I remember him talking about SCT although kidney functions were not great.

He gave lots of people hope and this is what this site is about,hope for a cure plus watching people who seem to be full of hope and beating the odds,Scott is one of many…[Read more]

I am so sorry that your husband has gone. I would love to tell you that it gets better, but you do learn to deal with it. My children were much older than yours. They may be very angry with Dad and feel very guilty for feeling that way.

I am no expert or councillor but I wonder if it would help to let them know that is OK to be angry with Dad. He…[Read more]

Hi Tina

You hold on to that tea towel forever. I cannot use a “steel” to sharpen knives but I would never part with it. I miss Stephen so, so much and do not think that will ever change, but I have learned to carry on. I also realise that family and friends have no idea how much I am still grieving, but that’s OK. It’s how it should be.

Love…[Read more]

Thank you Richard,that was kind,

I often think about Dai,and others and people who have stopped posting,like Jo .

Deb Bones lost her fight just after Christmas as well,it’s a sad year all round for many of us,but we do live in hope that away to control Myeloma is coming,plus we have the knowledge that all the people on the trials helped

I am…[Read more]

Dear Rosie
I am so sorry to read that Chris has gone. I don’t come on here very often now. My darling husband, best friend and soul mate died in September 2012 aged 57. There is not one day that I don’t miss him. I have passed the stage of disbelief, in the early days I would wake up and, half asleep, look to my right and try to work out where he…[Read more]

Dear Rosie
I am so sorry to read that Chris has gone. I don’t come on here very often now. My darling husband, best friend and soul mate died in September 2012 aged 57. There is not one day that I don’t miss him. I have passed the stage of disbelief, in the early days I would wake up and, half asleep, look to my right and try to work out where he…[Read more]

I found they gave my husband the anti sickness pill to near his meal!!!!
If it’s taken half an hour before a meal it settles the gut,so that might be worth trying,and yes some hospitals keep you in until you can hold down your food,Slim just lied!!!! But that was Slim.

Try a piece of pineapple to clear the pallit ,drink anything you can,it’s hard,fizzy drinks helps,it’s just a matter of perseverance .

Hi

I am sorry to hear about your news,it’s not very nice when all hopes seem to fade,!

You must be absolutely shattered with all that’s been going on since last January,with hardly any time to take everything in,your experiences of hospitals is becoming more commen place,waiting hours just to be put on a drip,when your husband was so ill,it is…[Read more]

Hi Rosie
So sorry to hear your sad news,it heart breaking if you are not expecting it to be so sudden,I had Time with Slim to prepare are selves for what was going to happen,you can never tell with Myeloma all it takes is an infection or pneumonia ,I nearly lost Slim at the very beginning with pneumonia,so we felt lucky to get another 3 years…[Read more]

Hi Fuzz

Well you are showing some signs,that could be a number of diseases,a simple blood and urine test should show the possibility of Myeloma.

Doctors only come across Myeloma once in a life time as there are only 3000 cases a year in GB.

I would make a note of your weight and height,plus how many times you feel sick,your kidney functions…[Read more]

Hi Vicki

Nice to hear from you, I think you are doing the best thing not coming on here to much when you are in remission ,best to lock the Myeloma away in a cupboard mentally ,and enjoy life as much as you can,because we all know it finds you in the end,so enjoy today.

I have good and bad days,try to keep myself busy and out of the house,after…[Read more]

My husband was on a really high dose of dex. It turned him from a laid back pussy cat who rarely got angry to a a bad tempered, argumentive monster. We called this dexatude. I hope you are on a low dose and it is not affecting you too badly

Gill

I am sorry that your Dad has died. I am sure your post will make people more hopefull. He actually lived on for 19 years after diagnosis. Let’s hope for a breakthrough soon. My husband died 4years after diagnosis aged 57

Gill