Thanks for the replies people sorry not to respond sooner, it’s a bit frenetic at work.
@wifeof – The going back to work conundrum. I’m an academic and responsible for a number of major research projects and I’m also the Director of our PhD programme. It means I’m pretty much on a minimum 6 day week but I do have flexibility in terms of how I order my hours.
In retrospect I went back too soon, but I did feel capable of work and it helped take me away from thinking about my predicament. Basically it made me feel normal again.
Everyone is different, but you need to discuss your progress with your specialist. I felt ready and they were happy about it.
The actual SCT process isn’t particularly pleasant but it wasn’t as bad as I thought it was going to be. I passed through it reasonably unscathed but again people respond very differently. Some people on here have had it tougher. The first few months back you will have to be careful with food and potential infections. Lots of healthy broths and you begin to build up your strength through gentle exercise. I used to walk around the house and up and down the stairs.
all the best
tom