Hi Neelie, Unfortunately your story is not a rare one with regard to MM. I had MM 2 years prior to diagnosis and it was only breaking my neck getting out of bed one morning in July 2009 that brought about the diagnosis of MM.
I have found that the Doctors most favourite saying is ?It is all in your mind? and another nice little saying they like to use is ?Worried well?. Having said that there are some really dedicated Doctors out there and we should not let the few bad apples taint our view of them all.
At the time I came out of hospital, the Surgeons having fixed my broken neck, MyelomaUK was doing a Doctor Awareness Campaign asking everybody to deliver an A4 MM Diagnosis chart to our Doctors with a covering letter. I knew there were 36 Doctors in the Taunton area so I addressed one to each Doctor and then dropped them around to their Surgery and it was placed in their pigeon hole so I know they got it. The best bit was that the next time I went to see my Doctor he said that they ?the Doctors? had discussed it.
All the very best of luck to your Dad.
Kindest regards ? Vasbyte
David