Hi Sally, I am sorry to hear about your Dad and the problems in the family.
You give very little information about your Dad other than he has now been diagnosed with full blown MM from MGUS. Have they already collected Stem Cells from him during his MGUS period?
I was diagnosed with MM in 09 aged 66. I find it difficult to imagine how I would have coped without the support of my wife but when I think about it I did not need all day all night treatment and therefore it would be possible for you to perhaps help with his treatment as you cannot rely on your mother.
Can I suggest you attend all of his consultations from now on, if you are not already, and make sure you make notes of what is said.
Perhaps you could come back when you know a little more and we could then set out the framework for you of ?standard? treatment that might give you some ideas.
Kindest regards ? vasbyte
David