Dear Tony,
I joined the forum today – I was diagnosed on March 20th with smouldering myeloma after 2 months of blood tests and the bone marrow and bone biopsy. I too am feeling a whole gamete of emotions as you can probably tell from the time of this post. I have carried on with my normal life as a teacher but have found returning from the Easter holidays this week very hard. I think that talking about it and keeping each other positive is the best way forward. As Mike has suggested finding out is good but I am finding the figures mind boggling as I look at the paperwork I have. It is scary but also this forum does help you to know that there are others going through this.
I made the decision today to get some professional counselling so that I can off load my thoughts to a third party. I don’t know if this will help but will let you know if it does. I am lucky enough to have older children and I have been very open with them but its hard telling loved ones news like this.
Try to keep positive and all the best with the up and coming tests
Ali