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  • #115933

    blessthischick
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    Hey there VickiMeek

    Just to send you best wishes and to say I’m thinking of you guys. I can’t imagine how this feels because as a smoulderer I haven’t been there…yet. But I went through my expartner being diagnosed with advanced cancer last year and I remember the worry I had for him. I thought my heart was gonna break as I watched him being so brave. He taught me a lot! In some ways the carer side of things for me was worse than being a patient. So, don’t apologise putting a brave face on for him is not easy…and I am sure you are not a wimp! Hang in there.

    Lots of love to you both

    Kay 🙂

    #115932

    blessthischick
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    Dear Rebecca

    I am pretty sure that there is nothing on this educational tool for nurses that you do not already know and that is EXACTLY why I do not understand why this information could not be made available for us all should we want it. Obviously it would need to be in a slightly different format & without the continuous assessments that are included for healthcare professionals. This educational tool will be updated regularly therefore it is an excellent up-to-date resource. The information in the tool is all collected together in one place and can be gone through methodically at an individual’s own pace of learning. It has sections as follows:

    Epidemiology

    Pathogenesis

    Diagnosis & Staging

    Treatment & Management of Side Effects & Complications of Myeloma

    Transplantation

    Drug Development & New Treatments

    Anaemia

    Bone Disease

    Maximizing Quality of Life

    I have the FACTS of my Myeloma already as I am sure you do Rebecca. BUT I do not have the deeper UNDERSTANDING that I feel I need and have been grappling with for ages & trudging through the internet for. There IS no horror show on this educational tool. But rather there are excellent materials including animations and podcasts (the podcasts are from the Myeloma UK TV so you will have already seen them) to aid learning & give a deeper understanding of Myeloma. I feel a deeper understanding of Myeloma can help sufferers make more informed decisions about their future, if that is what they want.

    I have found out fairly recently that my Myeloma consultant needs to be asked specific questions. If he is not asked, he will not tell me. We may be going our separate ways because of this but one thing I have learned from that experience is that if I was not on the internet researching prognosis I would not have had the knowledge to ask him about my genetics and my flc ratio. Because of this I got another opinion which came with the recommendation that my bloods need to be monitored monthly, my mri’s and bmb’s need to be done 6monthly. I feel I am on top of my condition because of my trudge through the internet. Do I regret it? No… but I do regret the laboriousness of it 🙁

    Often, we do not know what we need to know until we know it. That is why for me if I know as much as there is to know, then I have more chance of knowing what I need to know 🙂 & staying on top of my Myeloma.

    Rebecca, from my consultation re my genetics I was given the reassurance that there are drugs that are fairly far along in terms of being approved for our High Risk group & there is lots going on researchwise. In terms of how this learning tool situation can be changed, I suppose this is a starting point. I am hopeless on computers but I am pretty sure there will be someone with the technological knowledge to make it possible. I suppose, though, we have higher powers here at the decision-making level that would need to approve it and would look forward to their views on it on this forum or failing that maybe Ellen can give advice on how to pursue this? My best wishes to you Rebecca. Take care for now.

    Kay 🙂

     

     

    #113814

    blessthischick
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    Hello Anita

    I am the same age as you & had a trip down to the NAC last Oct. I was told I do not have Al Amy but that I may develop it so they check me really closely and so far things have been been fine. I am sorry you find yourself in this situation & I can imagine it must feel pretty scary. Just wanted to send you a link to an American awareness page on facebook I found which has been brilliant. There are other useful links within this site as well. PM me if you want me to contact a couple of ppl in the UK who may be able to help you.

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/amyloidosisawareness/

    Sending you lots of love & all my best wishes. Thinking of you.

    Kay x

    #113810

    blessthischick
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    Hello Duncan

    Just wondering if you have heard of Amyloidosis Awareness on Facebook? It’s a great site with links to other ones. I am being checked regularly for Al Amy after the found some Amy tissue in my skin. Take care.

    🙂 x

    #113809

    blessthischick
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    Just wanted to add my best wishes to you Tom. You r a real trooper. Lots of love and best wishes 🙂 x

     

    #113808

    blessthischick
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    Hi there

    I asked for a second opinion last week and got it no probs. In fact my consultant was lovely about it. Furthermore some1 told me that I could ask for a third opinion if I want.

    The only things my consultant wanted prior to referring me was a repeat bmb and a chat about what I want to achieve from the referral. I just said I wanted to see if the consultant in London had any more to add to my case & that was it. Sorted. Bmb next wk and hopefully off to London very soon after.

    Good luck with your friend x

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