Thankyou so much Vicky and Georgina , it really helps a lot to have the support of my on-line friends. I have an appointment to meet Prof Tobias on the 12th Jan to discuss radiotherapy , at UCH, hopefully it wont be too long after that as it is very painful, Georgina please give your mum my best wishesand Vicky I hope you are taking it easy and enjoying the sunshine love Bridgget x