A Massive thank you to all your replies.. just being able to hear other peoples experiences is wonderfully comforting..:) Dai. You make an interesting point, and I have looked at some American myeloma sites. However, I'm not sure yet what alternative treatments we have here in the UK. I will absolutely get as much info as possible, to help mum make the best decision for her. I know at the moment she feels like she wants to get all treatment over with and move on with her life. At least now when we have the consultation at St Barts, I will be better I.formed as to what questions to ask. Thanks again everyone…its much appreciated!..:) xx