Hi Roz,
If what Andrea has told you turns out to be the case then I hope that someone (perhaps Andrea?) can put you in touch with a local hospice. Even if the Doctor does decide on no more treatment for Myeloma there will still have to be a positive and structured plan for palliative care… and a regime of medication etc. because Michael might still be around for quite a while.
I know that you would like him home but IF that proves to be really impracticable then a good hospice might be an acceptable compromise.
If you don't mind I am still going to keep wishing and praying that the Doctors disagree with Andrea's assessment, that there was some sort of misunderstanding and that they find something quickly that sorts out this terrible situation with the infections… and make him well enough for a last shot at an acceptable and pain free recovery.
Monday will tell all and I hope that your daughter AND Andrea will be there to make sure that everything is properly explained and understood and that the next steps, [b]whatever[/b] they are. are carried out with your full participation and with your full blessing and that they suit you and Michael if nobody else.
Dai. xxx