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Sledging in the Snow

Ing up for grabs

Think I've done it right If not Sedling think its a word
Roz

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Thanks

Ilove this site:-D

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Hi Min

Here you go…Sorry but the account now becomes in your name only.:-( I have been there. They need a copy of the death certificate too.:-S It takes a few weeks to complete so your joint account will stay for a bit longer.:-D Right down to the nitty gritty, all these things kept me in denial for months…
If you pay anything direct debit they have to be informed because you become the head of the account. All mail from these accounts will become in your name only, but it will take for ever for mail for your husband to stop.:'-(

If you want to know anything else just email me, you've got my email address and I'll gladly help.. I know how it is when your struggling to cope and have to deal with this too.

All the best
Love Roz xx

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Thanks Gill

It took me ages to ask this question on this site. I didn't want to upset anyone because you all mean a lot to me:-)

I've tried finding photo's but wedding and alot of old ones must be in the loft, no-one to get them for me.

So I'm just have to do my best, stop trying to rush things and cry if I want to, or shout at his canvas's on the wall.

Thanks all for caring and being there fot me

Love to you all
Roz x:-D

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Very good Gill,

Just to inform you wen you loose your partner your brain goes skerwiff spelt wrong. I asked on a forum why I can't remember things.. Its called widows brain apparently. At the mo my brain will answer just like the oldies too, you'd be surprised. :-S This is me

All the best
Love
Roz x

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All the best Bridget,

Everythings still crossed for you.:-)

Love Roz

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Thanks Mavis

I don't no what happened once my name was put down by my gp and social worker, but I haven't heard a thing.
I'll take all advice and find all our photo's.
I'll not mention it again on site, everyone deals with it differently and it's not fair on others.
Then I'll let nature take its course.
Love to you all
Roz

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Hi

Tom I'd call it old age…:-D

I love is easy it's wait for it
Being married to Michael
Spending all the yrs I had with him.. Now I love his pictures, his garden and his bench.
Making Rachael
Having Rachael
Then Lauren my grand daughter.

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Hello Min
Love and best wishes I send to you.

I'm so glad the service was good Min, these partners with MM deserve the best end for the Cr-p years they have endured.
I remember the form filling and stuff. Believe me it takes your mind of the norm. I wish I could help you and all like you, this then would help with my process. I thank you for all messages and emails, and hope you start the grieving process better than I did.
I've been in denial, then realised he wasn't coming home again about 2 wks ago, so then I cried.

Wish you all the best

Roz x

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Hi Bridget,

I want to wish you all the best for your treatment. Especially because I want to see you do that Jig:-D
So all my fingers, toes and everything else are crossed for you.
Your a star
Roz x

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Thanks Dai,
Your an Inspiration to us all,
Sorry for adding to the bad news:-( I'll try and remember and get back to the good news:-D
Hope your having a good hol
Love to you and your family
Roz x

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Thanks Min
[u]So sorry for opening up wounds. I should be helping you not the other way around, please forgive me.[/u]About 2 wks ago I did my full crying episode, realising he was never coming back. I do believe he is watching over me. But I think because of everything I'm only really grieving. I've been in denial. I am getting to understand I did everything I could and don't blame myself as much. I know he is not suffering now,but for some reason I cannot get back all the memories we shared before he was ill.
I've had canvas's made of him and they are on the walls, I've done his garden, and I speak to him. Part of me believes I'm trying to rush everything, so maybe I should just get on with things and grieve.

Thanks ever so much
All the best for you and your family
Roz x

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Thanks Jill

I've tried my Gp and previous social worker put my name down, (he got took off me by council.)Nothing became of it. My Gp doesn't ask any more he used to phone with silly questions like do you miss him.
There is a waiting list as long as 10 months around my area in Cruse and I've joined forums, but I've been told alot of it is the after effects of seeing what I saw. I cannot find the memories of Michael just the ill fragile man.

Roz

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Sorry Tom
Should never have asked on this site, someone just asked me if myeloma uk could help so I thought I'd ask.

Nothing became of the councelling from GP and Social worker

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Hi Bridget,

So sorry to hear about the tumour. You Swear all you like. Come on Swear and Shout. Thats the way. You keep doing it then we all know your fighting it.

Love and hugs to you,
Your a star
Roz

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